Post Date December, 02 2023
The simplest way to save a marriage is to use your heart, to do something from the bottom of your heart, and to touch the other person's heart with a sincere heart. There are more than ten thousand techniques.
First of all, it's your inner heart that truly understands gratitude and cherishing. You just want to save your marriage for the sake of love, not for any other factor that forces you. Whether you love someone or not, he can feel it.
Secondly, the other party is also willing to open their hearts to accept you, and the other party can perceive your inner feelings. Everyone has the softest pure land in their hearts, and they all have the ability to discern right from wrong. However, many times we disguise ourselves as strong and indifferent outside. We need to be intelligent, to see the vulnerability behind human nature, to see the true thoughts of others' hearts, and to do anything can achieve twice the result with half the effort.
Thirdly, it is also important to strengthen your own heart. Do not forget your original intention because of any emotions and difficult tests, easily being controlled by others, and deviating from your original track. Firm goals and unwavering beliefs are sure to reap different landscapes.
Marriage has reached the point where it needs to be saved, and only when the red light is lit up, can it receive our attention. This is a very frightening thing, which is enough to demonstrate our love of escape, laziness, and strong patience. We would rather remain in the state of suffering for each other or ourselves than face and solve problems early, so that the problem becomes more and more serious. Finally, there is a person who cannot bear it, and the marriage lights up the red light, On the verge of divorce. Bian Que has said in treating diseases that the disease lies in the striae, where the soup (t à ng) irons (w è i) can also be reached; In the skin, where the needle stone can reach; In the intestines and stomach, the fire is also in the reach of Qi (j ì); In the bone marrow (su ǐ）， To whom Siming belongs, there is no alternative.
To save marriage, it is necessary to know where the problem lies in the marriage. The so-called "right medicine to the case" means from acting as a medicine to getting rid of the disease.
Of course, the term "saving marriage" here refers to the fact that the marriage has not yet been completely destroyed, and the two people are still willing to continue to maintain their family and go on together. The situation where one party has already determined to leave and is desperate to leave is another matter.
Marriage allows two strangers to get along day and night, revealing their respective advantages and disadvantages. Whether they can live a good life depends on their character. A conscientious, responsible, motivated, kind and optimistic person who is diligent and pragmatic can not only make some achievements in his work, but also not be too bad at home management. He is willing to devote himself to everything in life.
Fear is the fear that once our lives become stable, we will lose the motivation to continue to progress. The inferiority of human nature, laziness, blame, complaint, shirking responsibility, fear of giving, and so on, can make us no longer pay close attention and care to our partners as we do when we fall in love. Therefore, many times when our partner's heart is unhappy, we will be difficult to detect, or even lazy to deal with it even if we detect it. Moreover, we will no longer pay attention to their happiness, anger, and sadness, and life has become a robotic programming.
Managing a good marriage is a discipline that requires a mature mind, wisdom in life, and a dedicated spirit of dedication. When two people are together, they need to constantly communicate with each other's inner world, integrate their information, find the best way to get along, find common goals for marriage, and find the driving force for life.
