A survey speech with the "third party" as the crux shows that nearly half of the derailers have a bachelor's degree or above, and the spring and autumn period is dominated by 35-45 years of age. Because most of the people in the spring and autumn period have reached the "seven-year itch", at this time the third party is the most likely to take advantage of the opportunity and the derailed middle-aged men have reached a certain degree in terms of economic income and social status, and are vulnerable to external temptation.
Small details expose "third party signal"
one
They often return late. There is always a "beautiful" reason for coming back late. If he says he wants to go out at one time, and then bans the agreement, but he wants to go out in a flash, this is horseshoe.
2
The attitude towards the third party has changed. Previously, he despised the third party, but now he excused his friend's affair. Such changes should not be taken lightly.
three
Be muddle-headed to you. Helping you buy clothes, take the initiative to do housework, and even suddenly become extremely enthusiastic about your family and friends, all of which may be caused by their remedial psychology, half out of guilt, and half out of whitewashing.
four
Lipstick prints on clothes, perfume smell. Mobile phones are always blocked. "The phone you dialed is turned off" or "the phone you dialed is in progress" is always coming from the phone.
But men's cheating can be divided into three situations:
I
One is that the wife does not do well enough. For this reason, the husband, in the desperate situation of marriage, refuses to divorce due to many factors, and has to learn some emotions from extramarital affairs to make up for his emotional deficiency.
two
Because of long-term contact with colleagues or surrounding friends, they are attracted by certain characteristics of the other party, and perform a love affair over time, or they perform a night of love on the way to a business trip because of loneliness.
III
The other way of cheating is due to cheating. That is to say, even if the wife does something irreproachable, he can't stop his cheating heart.
As for the men who frequently cheat, if women can't keep one eye open and one eye closed, they should leave as soon as possible. Because the men who frequently cheat have risen to the point where dogs can't eat shit, it's hard to see the prodigal son turn back.