A male friend told me one day that he finally found out after his divorce that the toilet had to be washed frequently. It turned out that taking care of a couple of children should take so much effort. And lose your freedom! I asked him, "How is your ex-wife now?" He said, "After she left me, she married a foreigner and lived happily." I then asked, "Has she not come back to see the children?" He said calmly, "No."
"Does she not love children? She gave birth to her own!" I wondered. This friend started drinking and told me about his relationship with his ex-wife.
The wife is a good woman. Although she likes to play before marriage, she has changed her life after marriage and lived a very homely life.
After the birth of his first child, he often went out early and returned late, saying that it was for business communication. The wife understands the hard work of men working outside and has no complaints.
When the second child was born, he often returned late and even stayed out for the night. His wife hopes that he can spend more time with her and her children, but he always uses his career as an excuse and still goes his own way.
The mother-in-law is a conservative woman with old ideas. She always thinks that all kinds of sons are due to the bad behavior of her wife, so she is very indifferent to her wife.
After eight years of marriage, his wife finally gave him an ultimatum. His wife said to him, "After eight years of marriage, what have you paid for this family? What have you done for me?" He said drunkenly, "I work hard to earn money for you every day and work hard for life. Isn't that enough?"
The wife said, "Do you think this is enough? Is that all a woman wants?" He said discontentedly, "What else do you want? Let you not worry about food and clothing, life, stay at home every day, do what you want? How many women are better than you?"
The wife said sadly, "You can't see my efforts and my sufferings in the years of marriage. You don't know why your children suddenly grow up and become sensible. You take everything as natural."
He said discontentedly: "I didn't pay? I didn't take care of you? Who gave you the money? Didn't I work hard to raise the child?" His wife was silent, and she knew it was time to wake up at this moment.
Finally, she proposed divorce, unconditional divorce, no children, no money, just want to leave the man who wasted her life and made her unhappy.
At the end of the story, my male friend lowered his head and stopped talking. I think he drank too much? Pat him on the back
"Do you know that since the divorce, I have always wanted to find someone who can replace his mother for my child and myself.
But what I like, children don't like it. "
I asked him: "Is it what the child doesn't like at first sight, so you don't want it?" He nodded
He began to talk to himself, "I only now know that children will not grow up by themselves,
In fact, my mother is unreasonable. It turns out that family affairs are so heavy that she can't go anywhere with her two children. There is a reason why the toilet is so clean. "
He began to cry bitterly... I was in deep thought. I know some men will never learn to love a woman. Some men need women only because they lack a nanny, a Filipino servant, or a tool to carry on the family line.
My male friend can't believe that the toilet needs to be cleaned. Later, when I squatted in the toilet to wash the toilet, I found that a woman had been so important to him
1. Three things are gone forever
2. Three things destroy a person
3. Three things never give up
4. Three things are the most priceless
5. Three things are the most impermanent
6. Three things make people
7. Three things to cherish:
People in front of us
8. Three things to do things
9. Three things to make friends
10. Grasp three things