Women always have to marry, as the married women around you will say. As a girl, once you step past the 25th threshold in your life, more and more people will say this. You must love this man, and this man must also love you. This kind of love is purely emotional, without any color of interest or any utilitarian purpose. When and where you two are together, you will be very happy and happy.
1. There are no conditions for loving you
You must love this man, and this man must also love you. This kind of love is purely emotional, without any color of interest or any utilitarian purpose. When and where you two are together, you will be very happy and happy.
2. He can fight for your happiness
This man can have nothing at all, but he must have a dedication and a desire to conquer. He has a strong and tenacious personality, and constantly pursues to enable you to lead a rich, happy, and happy life, realizing the maximum value of his existence. In the process of pursuing career success, I will not complain about setbacks and failures, feel depressed, fall down, and cannot get up. I also strive to find a dignified excuse for my failure. In the face of failure, he can laugh it off without even letting you see the scars, and move on. A true man will not give up his pursuit.
3. He can give women a sense of security
This man should be able to give women a sense of security, not cause you to worry and worry about, so that you always know where he is and what he is doing, and he always wants to know where you are and what you are doing. "He takes care of you meticulously. He can do what you think of, and he can also do what you think of. You can always live a carefree life, because with him, you can consider nothing.".
4. He won't let you bear his pain
This man not only can take care of you, but even if he encounters great difficulties, misfortunes, and injustices, he will not show despair, cry, complain, or complain in front of you. Instead, he hides everything in front of you and silently accepts it, constantly creating happiness for you and bringing you joy. This man can withstand great pain, but never needlessly creates trouble for himself because of you.
5. He thinks you can resist any temptation
This man is loyal to you and the relationship between you, and never betrays. No matter what kind of circle he works in or what kind of friends he has around him, he has a strong resistance to the temptation of other women. It's not that he doesn't want to, but that he can control his behavior with reason and be responsible for his behavior, even if you are a person who never doubts him, even if he has a hundred chances to do so.
6. He's generous with you
This man should be very magnanimous, able to accommodate all tolerable people and things. He won't interfere in your personal affairs, such as whether you're socializing with clients on business, gathering with classmates and friends you haven't seen for years, or even spending time with your first love boyfriend. Although he may feel very depressed and jealous, as long as you appear in front of him, he will be so happy that he forgets everything and won't make a big noise or sullen face and ignore you for a long time after you come home.
7. He supports your career
No matter how capable and profitable this man is, he doesn't advocate that you stay at home as a nanny for him and his children, and won't let you become a housewife for laundry and cooking because of household chores. He supports you to be independent and self-reliant, have your own social circle, and have your own colleagues and friends. "He won't let you go out when others only know you're someone's wife, not your name.". "He's busy, and he won't let you be burdened by your family.".
8. He is in good health
This man must be very healthy and have good living habits, preferably without bad habits, and have the habit of exercising and participating in various sports activities. This man may not be so powerful and tall, but he can always be energetic, energetic, sunny, and dynamic. You don't have to accompany him to the hospital every day, and you won't always take sick leave on his behalf.
9. He has his own ideas
This man must have his own opinions, and he cannot listen to the wind and follow the rain. Even if he is a very filial son, his advice to his parents is also screened. Parents who pay a lot for their sons will definitely interfere with many of their sons' choices, including things between you. As for matters between you, he knows that the only person who can make decisions is you two. Regardless of the pressure, he will not live in the shadow of others or in their comments.
10. He can tolerate everything you have
If this man truly loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits and shortcomings, including the shortcomings and shortcomings of your friends and family, as well as the troubles and troubles they have brought to him or your family. He never complains or criticizes. He takes these things seriously and helps you break bad habits in a way that you can accept. He will also sacrifice his own interests to help your family and friends, because he knows that helping them is actually helping you!
11. He has the ability to support his family
Although this man cannot be wealthy enough to rival his country, he must have a stable income or the ability to make money. At least, it is not a problem to support his family. Love is very important, but love without life can only be a story in Qiongyao's novels, and it cannot last forever. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and no matter how deep your emotions are, you can't help the dissipation of a difficult life. Poor couples are in a state of mourning, even worrying about firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea. What mood is there to make do with it?
12. He's a very confident man
This man should be a confident person, a man who exudes a sense of confidence, determination, and perseverance. You truly feel at ease and secure as a capable person. A confident person can be optimistic, open-minded, and magnanimous. No matter what starting point or process he experiences, he will use his own efforts to change his destiny, and will make the career he pursues successful, making him the pride of his wife and children.
13. He and you should be a good match
This man's height and appearance should not be too far from yours, and he should not look annoying or think disgusting. Even if he can meet your high material requirements, but if two people want to eat together and sleep together, if they don't even have the mood to take a look, how long can this life last? "A person's material requirements are ultimately limited, while their spiritual requirements are infinite. Who can live a lifetime with someone they dislike?"?
14. He can regulate your lives
This man is humorous and interesting, and has one or several good hobbies. When you are together, he can always find topics that interest both of you. Whenever possible, you can spend an evening together chatting on a topic, and your topic is not limited to family chores, such as Zhang's parents and Li's family. He can talk to you about a Korean drama and a book. He can always come up with ways to decorate a dull life, take you on trips, outings, take you to dinner at a newly opened characteristic restaurant, and surprise you at any time.
15. He has strong communication skills
This man is an active figure in his circle, with certain charisma and personality, and strong social skills. If you take him to a party with your colleagues or classmates, he can quickly find suitable topics with your friends and colleagues. During the conversation, he can be humorous and witty, and his speech is unique and philosophical.
16. He can fight like a man
Regardless of his height and weight, this man must act like a man and have a manly demeanor. Be able to make a promise, be fearless in the face of danger, and not be surprised by favours or insults. Thinking about major issues between you and not participating in trivial decisions can give you considerable autonomy and decision-making power. When you encounter conflicts with others, they always use the simplest method to resolve the conflict, and can also ensure that you do not suffer losses.
17. He dares to face any result
This man must have a sense of responsibility. When doing things and making choices, be sure to consider the results and be prepared for possible outcomes. Regardless of the outcome, as long as it is related to oneself, they can dare to bear it on their own, regardless of whether it is a public or private matter, they will not find an excuse to shirk responsibility, let alone blame others.
18. He has an ordinary heart
This man must have an ordinary heart, not proud to win, not discouraged to lose, not happy with things, not sad with oneself. "Rich and capable can help the world, while poor can help themselves.". Perseverance in adversity, optimism, open-mindedness, positive progress, never say goodbye to your pursuit, and view your gains and losses with a peaceful heart.
Of the 18 items mentioned above, a man cannot have all of them, but only a few items are enough. You cannot ask for all of them, otherwise you won't be able to marry yourself out for the rest of your life. If the man you meet has a sense of career, responsibility, kindness, and integrity, you can consider it.