The life of my husband and I was not like this. Although we had a good relationship at that time, there was still a drawback. That was, our sexual life was not perfect, because at that time we didn't have our own house and could only temporarily live in the husband's family. The husband's family lives in an old house, and the sound insulation effect is not very good. At night, when we exercise, we need to try our best to suppress our own voices.
In such an environment, how could I possibly enjoy sex, let alone orgasm. About a year after my marriage, when I was once again integrated with my husband, I suddenly felt a strong sense of pleasure that I had never experienced before. I couldn't help but make a cheerful moan and bit my husband's ear and whispered, "Hurry up, don't stop." The husband increased his strength. At this moment, the annoying bed rang again, and then came the sound of mother-in-law coughing from the next door. None of us dared to move any more. The pleasant sensation in my body also disappeared in this cough, and I still had no feeling until my husband finished his work. I cried with anger.
"At this time, my husband comforted me while extending his arm and said, 'If you're angry, bite me a few times.'". I really bit him on the arm when he said that. After the bite, my heart seemed to feel much better. When I woke up in the morning and saw the purple tooth marks on my husband's arm, my heart ached and I said I would never bite again. "My husband patted his strong chest and said, 'It's okay, it doesn't hurt at all. As long as you feel good in your heart, bite it.'"
For a long time after that, I would release my desire by biting my husband. After a long time, my husband can't stand it anymore. In fact, after seeing the purple and red tooth marks on my husband's body, I was also very distressed and felt that I had hurt him. Therefore, I have repeatedly vowed in my heart never to bite him again. "But after a period of time, I couldn't help but bite. My" bite "has been for a year.".
After two years, I became pregnant, and perhaps the pregnant woman would not have too much sexual desire, so I temporarily put aside the matter of "biting" her husband. To this end, my husband stroked my growing belly and joked to the fetus inside, "Honey, you saved Dad. If it weren't for you, maybe your mother would have eaten you tonight!"
Due to excessive nutrition and the child being too old, I suffered a lot during the birth of the child, and I also received several stitches in my private area. The doctor said that in this case, it should be three months before I can cohabit. Upon returning home from discharge, the husband circled the date of the 90th day on the bedside calendar with a red pen. He said he was about to start a countdown life where happiness and pain coexist. I know what he meant by pain. "In the two months before I gave birth, our sexual lives had been pitifully low, and it was really difficult for him.".
Soon three months passed, and my body was finally able to accept my husband. Perhaps for the first time after taking care of me after childbirth, my husband gently kissed every inch of my skin and then deeply penetrated my body, but I didn't have any pleasure at all. "My husband also noticed and asked me if I wasn't getting well. I said it might be because I couldn't adapt at once. My husband comforted me and said that I would feel better some days.".
However, the turnaround came when our daughter was two years old and we bought our own house. After paying the down payment, our savings were running out, but our husband still borrowed money to decorate the bedroom with warmth and romance. Especially that bed, even if two people dance on it, it won't make any noise.
On the evening of our official check-in, we were really excited, and it was the craziest time in our history. "But I didn't feel much anymore except for a bit of pleasure at first.". In order not to disappoint my husband, I always pretend to be very excited. As the days passed, the completely independent space made my husband's "sexual" interest unabated, and I often couldn't control myself under his caress... I just wanted to say to my husband once again, "I love you!"
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)