Based on the survey conducted by the editorial department and the valuable experience contributed by Chinese and foreign netizens' comments, the following ten taboos for lovers are summarized. Knowing how to avoid mistakes is sometimes more important than knowing how to fall in love.
Evil deed 1: making an invitation at the last moment
A couple of men and women didn't meet until seven o'clock in the evening, so it's not disrespectful to meet again about nine o'clock in the evening. The feeling of suddenly wanting to see each other is actually quite touching. "But if his words are like this: 'Hey! My friend and I have an appointment to go to dinner, but it's temporarily canceled. Are you free now?' Such people can certainly be annoying.".
Evil deed 2: mentioning your ex girlfriend
This is perhaps the most common mistake lovers make. Saying good things to your ex girlfriend in front of you indicates that he hasn't fully accepted the fact of breaking up yet. Blaming your ex in front of you suggests that if you break up with him in the future, your evaluation of him won't be much better. The best way is to never mention a relationship.
Evil deed 3: Can't wait to rush to the bathroom
Leaping from your bed and rushing down to the bathroom is certainly not a bad thing, unless he does it within 4 seconds of completing the situation. What does that mean? "Does he want to say, 'I feel so dirty, I need to wash myself up quickly?'" The above scenario appeared in the film "Sex and the City" and sounded funny, but when you encounter someone with this bathing habit in real life, I'm afraid it's hard for you to laugh. ".
Evil deed 4: Taking out a condom too early or too late
The following is an unhappy experience left by a netizen. "She was on a first date with a super Kawaii guy, and they met at Pub at 11pm. At 1am, both of them felt pretty good. She was already mentally prepared to kiss the guy's mouth, but then the guy said, 'Let's go! I have everything I need with me.'" She asked, 'What are you talking about?' The guy replied, 'Just condoms!' What do these guys think of girls as? "? However, at least one redeeming feature of this serious mistake is that it allows girls to know earlier that you are a jerk, so they don't have to waste more time hanging out with you.
In addition, there is also a situation that is even worse than the previous one. You have been dating a guy for some time, and tonight, the weather is favorable, which is bound to develop a closer relationship. Everything went smoothly. You took off your clothes, lay down comfortably, and hugged each other happily until... in the darkness, you suddenly heard his voice: "Did you think of the one I thought of? Because I forgot!"
"You have already invited him home. Do you still have to keep ultrathin sensitive condoms in the drawer of the bedside table?"? You are not a professional in the sex service industry. At this time, you'd better stand up and get dressed, and ask him to go home by himself. Failure to take out a condom at a critical juncture is simply a lack of survivability!
Evil deed 5: Only one safety helmet on the locomotive
This is the personal experience of a colleague and friend. She was dating a popular variety show host and he proposed to take her home. Unexpectedly, his car wasn't a car, it was a motorcycle, and there was only a safety helmet on it, and there was still a light rain that night... These were all tolerable, anyway, the girls were willing to take his car.
But who wears the safety helmet? "Of course, it's a man, and his reason is, 'I don't want to be photographed by the paparazzi.'". So the girl called a taxi and went home. Later, when the boy called her again, she didn't even want to answer!
Evil Fact 6: Looking Elsewhere When Kissing
In a crowded public place, what is more embarrassing than seeing a couple kiss openly? Yes, it's the man who looks at you with his eyes when he's kissing, someone who's super interested in you.
"We all agree that where to look when kissing is really a question. Staring at each other, with your nose stuck in the middle, ensures that your eyes are out of focus.". Close your eyes, please! It seems to be playing the Qiongyao serial. However, the standard answer can only choose between the two above.
Evil deed 7: Give you a second-hand gift
In a beautiful box, there was a ring, a pair of candlesticks, or a sweater, but something was wrong. Although the gift was as good as new, the wrapping paper seemed slightly wrinkled. "Because this gift wasn't originally bought for you, it was bought for your ex girlfriend, but she left too early to accept it.".
After you discovered this secret, you couldn't help but forward the gift as if it could infect diseases, but forgot that the person who received the gift also knew him. On an unfortunate occasion, everyone finally realized that this gift had undergone so many resource recycling experiences, which would make the original buyer and the final recipient feel like you.
Bad deed 8: refusing to disclose important details
What are important details? Children, pets, wives, husbands, and anyone to support. When you plan to interact deeply with someone, hiding these details can lead to adverse consequences.
If you persist in this low-key style, the two of you will have to go to a strange or secret place to "fall in love", which not only hurts feelings, but also is unfair for the other party to confess. In the same way, if you have been dating for more than half a year before he starts introducing friends and family to you, such people may have important secrets to hide from you. Be careful!
Vice 9: Acting overly open
Here is what happened to Susan. During her summer vacation, Susan met a middle-aged man named George, who was as handsome as George Clooney and wasn't as lecherous as he was. Their love at first sight was simply too beautiful to be realistic; Under the tree in the park, the love talk lasted for two hours, and my eyes never left each other until the sun tilted west. He said he is an architect, has no children, and recently divorced
How can there be such a good thing in the world? Susan's intuition was that there must be a catch. As expected, at the moment they met, George said, "Come to my house tonight. You might as well bring a good friend over with you. I'm very keen on playing 3P."
Bad deed 10: Don't call or call
"The situation is like this. Two people have been dating for a while, and one of them wants to break up, so he unilaterally decides to completely cut off the news.". Calls to his home are always answered by a tape recorder, and the phone number has changed. He takes a detour to avoid any places you might go. How does it feel to meet such a person? It's sad enough to find out that you once loved an asshole, but even worse, this asshole is still a coward!
"If you don't call, it's an unforgivable evil behavior, and sometimes it's even worse. There's a special type of persistent fighting that calls every time you pass by your door to greet you, or it's just a way to burst your voicemail. Whether you're in the office, on the road, in the dining room, or even in the bathroom, he has a way to catch up... Isn't this kind of person annoying enough?"? There is even worse than this, if he is your boyfriend who has already broken up.
After breaking up, he will call you and tell you, "I am heartbroken, but I can understand and respect your decision." Hearing such gracious words, you begin to wonder if you have let the real rare treasures slip away. Perhaps the most regrettable mistake between lovers is caused by yourself.