Post Date December, 02 2023
"At the beginning, I was smart, but at the end, I was smart and almost destroyed myself..." Qi Qin's lyrics have condensed all kinds of experiences of extramarital love into essence. People who have extramarital love are always lucky to think that their own will not be found, but the result is often not like this. Then why are many people cheating?
1、 Demonstration effect of family
If parents are unfaithful to each other, the child's attitude towards marriage will appear cynical, and it is normal for them to think of extramarital affairs. It is not surprising to cheat on their partner.
2、 Physical desire
If a person feels physical satisfaction in an extramarital relationship, it can make him very excited and even indulge in it. Some experts say that this strong physiological need may come from "tremendous mental pressure, a sense of loss, or the pain of separation," or it may be caused by an unusual experience during childhood.
3、 The temptation of illusory networks
An increasing number of "online love" have led to the breakdown of already solid marriages. Experts point out that the convenience and anonymity of the internet can make many people forget the complexities and pressures of daily life and gain pleasure.
4、 Excessive premarital sexual behavior
The more times you have premarital sex, the more likely you are to be unfaithful to your marriage. Glass said that if a girl has frequent sexual activity at a very young age, she will not be afraid to cross moral boundaries after marriage.
5、 Children centered marriage
If both spouses have jobs and are usually busy, they often negotiate to spend the extra time with their children, which leaves them little time alone. Glass said that at this time, usually husbands find confidants at work who can share the joys of adulthood.
Gender experts believe that extramarital love does not necessarily include only "sex", but also emotional betrayal. For example, talking about love in an online chat room, although without physical contact, is still disloyal to your partner.
