For every couple, the biggest fear is not a quarrel or mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship, but extramarital affairs. According to scholars, having an extramarital affair can 100% lead to unhappiness in marriage. Even if not divorced, being together usually is no different from being divorced, after all, having a second heart. So, what is the typical mentality of extramarital love?
Nowadays, more and more families are experiencing extramarital affairs. What kind of mentality is it that motivates these people to cross traditional lines of defense and stay away from their own families? According to psychologists' research, many people are based on a compensatory psychology. Some people, due to a long-standing disagreement in their marital relationship, or the separation of the couple, feel lonely and unbearable, or because one of them has a physiological defect and cannot be satisfied physically, they actively seek a third party outside or are willing to accept compensation from a third party, thus forming an extramarital relationship. In fact, sexual life is not the entire content of married life. As long as couples strengthen their connections, communicate emotionally, and miss each other in their hearts, life will still be fulfilling, and there is no need to compensate.
Some people, due to a lack of affection, have embarked on the path of extramarital love. Some lovers eventually fail to become family members, and both parties have their own families. Or when one party becomes married and the other party is unwilling to start a family, they still think of each other in their hearts. When one party's life is difficult or the marital relationship is not harmonious, the other party feels that they still owe the other party's love and actively falls into the arms of their old lover, and the old love revives, resulting in an extramarital relationship.
In fact, all lovers in the world may not be able to become married. Since both parties have already married or the other party has already married, they should face reality and cherish the real marital relationship. When the other party has difficulties in life or the marital relationship is not harmonious, using extramarital love to repay the other party's love is not so much to help the other party, but rather to harm the other party, and it is useless.
In summary, to prevent extramarital affairs, one must start from a psychological perspective, ensuring that one has a normal mindset, can withstand temptations, does not envy others casually, and does not blindly pursue a high-end and luxurious life. Only in this way can the relationship between the two genders become stronger, and only then can they work together to reach the end of their lives.