Everything, at the highest stage, is better than having an ordinary heart, so is love. The sages of ancient China said that "too much is better than too much", and there is also a saying in the idiom that "the way of literature and martial arts is to relax and relax". In fact, what they say is the same truth. Only when you relax and relax can you maintain a stable state of mind and do some important things well.
But people in love are often the most difficult to grasp the balance between relaxation and relaxation. Many people who love each other finally have to leave because they are lost in an atmosphere that is either too tense or too relaxed. Love makes people immersed in it from meticulous to nervous, paying attention to each other's words, actions and eyes, as if all these are related to love. The truth of the matter is often that I really think too much. Zhang has more than enough but not enough, which makes many beautiful love have to disappear slowly in tension.
The other is just the opposite. When two people get along, they relax like a pair of passers-by; There are also few anxious thoughts and anxieties waiting for the reunion when we leave. Everything is as flat as water. There is more than enough chi and less tension, which makes love confused about whether it is friendship or love, and reduces the sense of tension between men and women.
Love is such a thing between relaxation and relaxation. The charm of love is different from person to person, from thing to thing, and from person to person. Like the gymnastics champion, he has a common heart at all times. He knows to relax love a little when he is most nervous, and to relax love a little when he is most relaxed. Perhaps your love inadvertently won the applause and perfect full marks.