Post Date December, 03 2023
Private detective agencies in Japan provide a service called "finding first love", with 90% of their clients being women. It can be seen that women are far more concerned about their old lovers than men. Why do women worry about their old lovers? Why are you willing to call them?
One reason: I thought of him by chance, and his phone number was easily found.
An Lin, 29, returned to her hometown's small town on business and passed by the entrance of her alma mater's high school. The familiar scenery and smell suddenly reminded her of her high school days and her first boyfriend. The simple love of the old days aroused her infinite emotion. Out of nostalgia for the beautiful past and curiosity to know if the former lover would be safe if he did not come, she obtained the boy's phone number from her mother and then dialed his phone. They had dinner together and shared memories of those beautiful past events.
Benefits: Satisfying his curiosity and vanity, because he still remembers the past years ago.
The downside: One such reunion is enough, don't abuse it. Otherwise, even good memories will be difficult to keep. In fact, everyone knows in their hearts that everything in the past will never come back.
The second reason: Because he once said that if you want, you can dial his mobile phone number at any time.
Xiao Wei, 36, recalled, "I proposed the breakup with him, and he was very sad.". The last time we met, his face was full of tears. A big man cried like this, which was very heartrending. He said I was a permanent pain in his heart. But he understood my determination because he really couldn't give me the happiness I expected. He said that if I wanted, I could dial his mobile phone number anytime, anywhere. Every Christmas since then, I will call him, and I have been feeling guilty about hurting a heart that loves me so much.
Benefits: In men's tears, women's vanity is satisfied. Comfort a broken heart is something all women are willing to do.
The downside: Men are much more forgetful than we think and hold grudges. When the pain in his heart subsides, your image and position in his mind will completely change. When you are still calling him in a tone of guilt and concern, he may be muttering in his heart: This woman is annoying enough to never know where she is in the right place.
Reason 3: A woman calls her old lover to invite him to her birthday party.
Excuses. A woman wants to see her old lover again, but making an appointment alone can make her feel awkward, and she doesn't know if the other person is willing to accept such an appointment. Therefore, she is willing to use some important anniversary parties as an excuse to let her old lover appear with everyone. Mary, 32, invited her old lover to attend on her birthday. But among her group of relatives and friends, his appearance appeared very sudden. He didn't know who to talk to, standing alone in the corner. A very uncomfortable reunion.
Benefits: Satisfying a woman's vanity. He is still willing to accept our invitation.
The downside: Obviously, he's starting to regret coming to this party. He won't be so easy to accept your invitation next time.
