Post Date April, 15 2023
There is a saying that goes, 'Couples are birds in the same forest, flying each other in the face of adversity.' This means that many couples cannot withstand the test of adversity. However, many couples today do not have great hardships, but are more likely to divorce. As a result, China's divorce demography is getting higher and higher, and there is a rising trend.
Among all divorcees, a considerable proportion of women are abandoned by men, which often makes these women feel very unfair. In the opinion of the editor, it is not entirely the responsibility of men to cause this situation, and women also have an unshirkable responsibility. Therefore, after marriage, women must learn to take care of themselves and manage their marriage.
Don't turn yourself into a 'yellow faced woman'
The body is the capital of revolution and marriage, so we must cherish it. However, many women often do not pay attention to their image after marriage, gradually turning themselves into the "yellow faced woman" in the eyes of men. Countless examples have proven that women who are old and pale are most likely to be abandoned.
To borrow the words of an infidelity man, "I earn money just to make you spend it, but you don't know how to spend it or how to take care of yourself. In a few years, you have wrinkles and spots on your face, making you look like a 'yellow faced woman'. I turn my stomach when I look at it every day, can I not cheat?" Although shameless words may be hard to hear, they do make sense. How can someone love you if they don't even love themselves.
Discovering and praising his strengths
After marriage, many men and women overlook discovering and praising each other's strengths, and instead criticize each other's weaknesses more. This is a mistake that many people, especially women, make. Therefore, when you watch TV dramas or movies and see the tragic marital life in the story, think carefully about how your husband treats you. You will find that although this man has some shortcomings, he still has nothing to say to you. When you have such thoughts, be sure to speak them out to your husband.
A warm word will make a man realize his importance to you. Everything he has done for you is not in vain, and you will remember it bit by bit in your heart. Who would be willing to cheat with such a reasonable and knowledgeable wife?
Fully enjoy the world of two people
Marriage needs to be managed, and your relationship needs to be managed even more. Many men go out to seek excitement due to boredom, which actually indicates that the quality of your marriage is not very good. Wise women often look for various ways to improve their marriage and bring back men's "ambition" to go out.
For example, they will set aside work, family, and children on weekends or one afternoon, and go out alone with their husband to fully enjoy your two worlds. When the inner feeling improves, naturally the man's heart will go home. At the same time, improving the quality of marital life is also important.
Experts kindly remind that there is no major contradiction between husband and wife, and the reason for the problem is that when they are together, they gradually wear away their love for each other, causing the failure of the marriage. In order to maintain their marriage and secure their husband's heart, women can start from the above three aspects.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
