Sexual Health
Do you know? Love needs to be supported by poverty, marriage needs to be supported by wealth
Love needs to be raised in poverty. Only love that has experienced trials and tribulations can make love that enters marriage immune and make marriage more stable and secure; Marriage needs to be supported by wealth, and only by wealth can we support the immortal love in marriage.
There is a short article called Love Can Serve as a Meal, which says that a pot of water can also produce a cup of essence as long as it is carefully boiled. It is also a delusion that others want to share half a cup or a mouthful of lotus seed soup made by the heroine for her boyfriend. It can be seen that love is a unique family, and a cup of soup is a threshold. Because it is too time-consuming and laborious, if you don't love it, you will find it troublesome to make soup. Therefore, love can satisfy oneself. Even if you are poor, as long as you have water, as long as you can afford to buy white fungus and lotus seeds, you can manage your love well.
Think about it, if both men and women in love are utilitarian, how can you experience this love? There is a saying called "Sitting in a villa and thinking about love". It can be imagined that a villa is a place lacking in love. Perhaps there is also love in the villa, but it always makes the parties feel unreal because it is utilitarian from the beginning, and this place is convenient like a supermarket, so you don't need to pay anything for the other party carefully, so there is no way to test the value of love.
In this era of 'no house no marriage', 'men owning a house' has become a hidden rule of marriage, and having a house and a car is the 'starting price' for marriage negotiations. Therefore, the hard indicator for men is' good looks, smaller than me '. The matchmaking of the second generation of wealthy people is almost a price tag, because they question whether the other person is the one who falls in love with them? Or are you interested in your own property? Relying on this lack of confidence, let's start by judging people based on their appearance without losing.
What a naked transaction! Who can sincerely deliver themselves to the other party? People with bare hands can easily believe that the other person is coming towards them, so love is also steadfast. Because in the process of building a love nest together, every detail is the touchstone of love. So, it makes sense for love to be poor.
Marriage seems to be the opposite, and it takes wealth to see the loyalty of a partner. There is a saying that goes, 'We can share hardships, but not share joys and sorrows', which refers to the changes in marriage. In poverty, both husband and wife can hold onto this trembling marriage because they need to support each other!
But once they get out of trouble and become rich, it seems like an opportunity has come for some people to cross the river and break the bridge. They start to despise that "husky wife" or "dog and horse husband" and are not satisfied with raising a "mistress" outside. Finally, they hand over a divorce certificate. This can only be said that this type of person has always had a hidden lust in their bones, but the timing has not arrived and they have no lust. So, a poor marriage is difficult to see the true face of Lushan only by making it rich.
In a marriage where there is no need to make a living and material prosperity, each other can be together without any distractions from the beginning, sharing the sweetness. Such a marriage is often as strong as gold. Even if there is a quarrel, it does not hinder a happy ending of "growing old together".
Love doesn't need a reason, it can be a romantic experience, but marriage is a commitment and responsibility, which includes "the reality of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and the need for grains and grains". How can a man and woman who have not experienced the hardships of love and are not familiar with worldly affairs withstand the test of love in a "prosperous" marriage?