Post Date December, 03 2023
Women are afraid of becoming a yellow face after marriage, but after marriage, many trivial matters in the family unknowingly turn women into yellow faces. Even if women's hard work is not understood by men, sometimes they will be satirized by him, which is really unbearable! The following is a list of four problems that couples will encounter when getting along with each other. Let's see how the talent works.
1. Money
*Scene photo
Sang Xiaotong and her husband bought New Year's goods last year. Her husband proposed to eat western food in the restaurant, but Sang Xiaotong disagreed, Say, "Save a little. Go to a small restaurant." Her husband looked at her and said, "When are you so tasteless?" Sang Xiaotong's face sank. "Taste? The luxury taste piled up by money. Do you think I don't want to enjoy it?" Her husband said, "Money! You know money, but it won't cost much to eat a western meal." Sang Xiaotong threw away his things and said, "I'm not saving money for you!" He ran away with tears
*Listen to the yellow-faced woman
Every month, we have to save enough money to pay the water and electricity bills, telephone bills, gas bills... and the expenses of salt, soy sauce and vinegar... the head is too big. We have to pay for the house. When we have children, we have to save money for them. There are many places to spend money! I'm still happy to let me go to the supermarket to buy clean vegetables and fruits like a lady every day, as I did before I got married!
*Spicy beauty coping skills
Direct method: From now on, we will no longer manage our accounts. Let's go romantic and extravagant every day as we do when we are in love! A month later, let him see how terrible the family expenses are, and let him know how heavy the cost is.
Indirect method: tell him: "If you make 10000 yuan a month, I don't care about anything. How to spend love! If you give me 10000 yuan a month, I promise to be your gentlest woman forever!"
2. Housework
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Sang Xiaotong, 32, rushed to the supermarket to buy vegetables after work and went home to cook. After 20 minutes, her husband came back. Sang Xiaotong took off his apron full of lampblack, washed his rough hands, and served the dishes. After dinner, Sang Xiaotong said to her husband, "I'm too tired today. Please help me wash the dishes!" Her husband turned on the TV and said, "Are you tired? I'm not tired? It's not easy for me to work after work? You women are enough to do these housework!"
*Listen to the yellow-faced woman
Don't I know my heart hurts when I see my hands rough? Who can stand it after a long time? Of course, the temper will get worse and worse, from whispering to nagging, and finally to the roaring of a lion.
*Spicy beauty coping skills
Direct method: say to him, "I won't do anything! Don't clean up the house! Don't wash the dishes, don't want to eat your food, and don't expect me to wash your clothes! Let's do our own in the future!"
Indirect method: After discussion, set the rules. He will do the housework on the weekend. Let him try and let him know how hard you are. Unless he is an idiot, no matter how stupid he is, he can understand how tired it is for you to be so busy every day!
3. Lack of self space
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Sang Xiaotong got up in the morning on the weekend and was busy at home. Her husband looked at her coldly and said, "Look at Mrs. Li, go hiking, do body-building and take piano classes on the weekend. How interesting? That's what a woman is! Where is it like you, not at all, like an aunt!" Sang Xiaotong mopped the floor, He said, "Don't you think I don't want to? Mrs. Li doesn't have to work all day, and her husband is rich, so he has hired a servant to clean up the house." Her husband disdained: "We can't compare with her, but you used to be a literate person. How can you improve your quality now?" Sang Xiaotong threw away the mop and said, "My quality is low, and I owe it to you!"
*Listen to the yellow-faced woman
Although my work is not very busy, I went back to buy vegetables and cook after work, and supervised the children to do their homework after eating. I am exhausted after a day and have no time for myself.
*Spicy beauty coping skills
Direct method: If you want to learn painting, you have to go to a painting tutorial class without hesitation, pay the money, and kill yourself. You have to learn.
Indirect method: arrange a schedule for your time at home, and handle everything at home in an orderly manner like work. Set a morning time for the weekend as your own time, resolutely do not do any housework, and no one is allowed to disturb. If your family has something to ask you for, you can tell them firmly that they can't solve it now.
4. Bad hobbies of men
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At 12:30 midnight, Sang Xiaotong was alone at home waiting for her husband to come home. But he waited all night. The next morning, when his husband came back, he smelled of wine and perfume. Sang Xiaotong pointed at his husband and shouted, "Where did you go last night? How many times do you think this is?
*Listen to the yellow-faced woman
I didn't know many of his bad habits when he was in love. For example, he doesn't brush his teeth before going to bed, likes to play games online all night, and doesn't change his underwear for several days... and I said repeatedly that he wouldn't change it.
*Spicy beauty coping skills
Direct method: If he really only accepts ruthlessness, you can give him ruthlessness.
Indirect method: plan some small scenes and use others' words to educate him to make him realize that his problems really exist. Then you guide him a little more, and he will correct it obediently. All men want is face! If you say he doesn't change, you just feel that you don't have to face it. What others say is different.
