Post Date December, 02 2023
For marriage, people are always filled with beautiful expectations. For both married and unmarried individuals, they hope that their marriage can start and end smoothly, and reach the end. To be honest, this is a very difficult task. You can see how difficult it is when you look at the high divorce demography. Today, what I want to tell you here is which type of marriage is the most likely to break down.
1. Romantic
Pursuing romance is not an option, as appropriate romance can help enhance the relationship between both parties, but excessive pursuit of romance can lead to problems. Overly pursuing a romantic love life, having high demands on marriage, hoping that the sweetness and harmony of newlyweds will always be maintained, love is colorful, and passion must be long-lasting. This unrealistic expectation, once not realized in real life, can lead to friction and conflict between the two conveniences, leading to serious marital problems.
2. Gnawing type
Couples in this type of marriage are not just financially dependent, but always seek help from their parents in everything and can never do without a pacifier. When there are any problems in marital life, it is not to discuss with your spouse how to handle the burden, but to seek support or guidance from your own parents separately. Married couples should understand that their future is connected to their spouse and should consider each other as the most trustworthy and intimate person. Otherwise, such marriages will generally fail due to "external intervention".
3. Perfect type
There is no perfect and perfect thing in the world, and marriage is also the same. Both spouses should not demand that everything be perfect, which is impossible, nor should they force the other party to meet their own highest standards. Otherwise, the marriage will experience unnecessary friction due to excessive demands. It can be done twice at a time, but it is difficult to say for a long time. Moreover, marriage should be a lifelong event. If the common 'pickiness' is common, even the best marriage relationship will break down.
4. Frugal type
The frugal marriage mentioned here refers to those marriages that are overly frugal. In marriage, understanding frugality is a good thing, after all, future things are difficult to say. However, some people currently have affluent family economic conditions and are always worried that good times may not last long. They are too frugal and do not allow their spouse to have more entertainment or enjoyment in life, and even deprive themselves and their family of some basic life needs and pleasures. They bear too much worry psychologically and do not understand the emotional life with their spouse.
5. Paranoid type
People in this type of marriage are often more negative and always see the negative side of things. Moreover, such people belong to the sentimental type, mostly women. They are suspicious of being seriously ill, always suspecting themselves of being sick, and self complaining. In fact, they want to attract the attention and care of their spouses through this. Occasionally, it will achieve the desired effect. However, if you do this all day long, it will backfire and make your spouse feel annoyed.
6. Career oriented
Yes, in today's society, there is no possibility of survival without work, which is a necessity for life. But if you're a workaholic, it's a different story. In our real life, some people just never calm down and are always busy. They don't have holidays or breaks, which always makes their spouses feel left out. If this type of person does not control themselves and spends more time with their spouse, even for their career, it can lead to the breakdown of their marital relationship.
In addition, in marriage, both spouses should not be overly picky, and living comfortably is a good way to get along.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
