Both men and women must know how to make concessions, and don't try to be brave, competitive, and competitive in front of their loved ones. When no one is wrong, both men and women take a step back, and love takes a big step forward.
A man who doesn't know how to make concessions for women can be dismissed now until he grows up.
The most important sign of a young man is to compete with his own people and his loved family for the long and the short. Those men who seem to love face very much, in fact, are usually full of dark cowardice! Therefore, every time I see those men who pretend to be tough men and never know how to admit mistakes and make concessions, I think it is funny. Such people are often full of jealousy and narrowness in their hearts, and it is difficult to let the sun shine into their hearts.
What is a mature man? Chow Yun-fat has many characters in the film who portray such a man. He is gentle to himself, his family and his lover. He is as gentle as a child and a woman. To the outside world, they despise difficulties, have no fear, stand firm, calm and calm.
On the other hand, if you are always fighting with your relatives and refusing to give up any land, even if you are talking about winning or losing, I can guarantee that you will do nothing outside.
Women, step back, men step back. A man who knows love would rather play the loser than defeat his lover. Beat her or him, what do you want?
True love requires compromises. Concession is not retreat, nor subordination, but respect for different views, practices and opinions. Don't fight for authority with your own people.
A woman who knows how to make concessions, in fact, is not to make concessions, but to protect his beloved man, so that he can build confidence and make him more proud. Because women fight for love and men fight for authority. This is the drive of hormones. You need to respect that hormone and let each other's hormones not be confused.
One step back is enough. It doesn't need two or three steps, but one step is needed. This is a woman's strategy.
But men, men, should be able to take two steps back, so that women will not be hurt by your strength. Love, whether right or wrong, regardless of whether you cherish it, regardless of whether you love it, regardless of whether you take good care of it, the link between each other.
Be a good man and give the sky to women. They like to fly, like to wander, like to think without logic, like to be full of emotional impulse, excitement, and act blindly! I will not correct these, I just protect her with vigilance! I will not discuss whether it is right or wrong. I am just a guard. Especially when they are blind and excited, my responsibility is to let my loved ones, even if they are all wrong, even if they are wrong, even if they are completely illogical, not to be hurt because of my protection. I'm even willing to hide behind my back and quietly correct every mistake, so that even though she did wrong, she got the right result, so that she didn't know she was wrong, or even what I did quietly!
It's not easy to love someone like this, but it's very happy and interesting! Especially if you knew it was a mistake, you also took care of it quietly, so that the beloved could continue to dream, continue her blind journey, and continue her beautiful, clear and confident life. I think this is the basic rule for me to be qualified and happy to accept this love.
Be a good woman, and don't expose men's mistakes! In fact, every wrong man knows that he is wrong! But before they learn how to do it right, they need to develop experience, vision, ability and skills through repeated mistakes! Don't attack them, they are still young, they need a woman who loves them, cover them, let them forget their childishness, their timidity, their incompleteness, and the fact that they are not strong enough!
Don't expose it, don't play a very smart woman, criticize your man with sharp teeth, and let the poor man's self-confidence, which is hard to cultivate, be destroyed by you! Better not to see, better to lie, better to be silly, cover your beloved man, so that he can not see the difficulties and mistakes, and brave forward! Yes, that's right. Every hero is a blind man. In order to be a hero in front of women, they bravely weave a dream, and forget and ignore problems and difficulties when weaving. That's right. For love, this stupid boy, stupid boy, under your cover, has become a hero and a successful man.
And every happy woman is also a blind woman. They choose wisely, choose simple trust and simple company. That's the woman who really knows love.
Good men are cultivated by women. It is the stupidity of women, the simplicity of women, the trust of women, the submission of women, the encouragement of women, and the cultivation of women's dreams. Like cultivating a child to grow up, a good man, because of women, bravely rushed all the way, and finally achieved a career.
Good women are nurtured by men. He makes women always believe that they are the most beautiful, the most sensitive and the best princess. He makes women never know how stupid they are, how many things are not thoughtful enough, and how many things are not done well! He made women become noble, clear and happy princesses.
Men and women, we are not fighting each other! Put the gun down and throw the bullet into the lake. No one can live without anyone, so cherish it well. Don't try to be brave, competitive and competitive in front of your beloved.
That's all right. From now on, let's be blind. Nobody can see each other's shortcomings clearly, but in our hearts, we know that we are so in love! So willing to rely on each other, travel together, watch the sunrise and sunset together, and listen to the sound of the waves.