Post Date December, 03 2023
When the initial mystery of the two lovers fades, happiness depends on the emotional habits they form in life, because the partner is more concerned about: Are you a person who can share hardships? Are you selfish? Can you manage your family wealth? Only good habits can provide the answer, and they will make you happier.
1. Screening out non principled issues
The lamp he chose for the living room was too difficult to watch; He was half an hour late because of the traffic jam; He forgot one of your anniversaries because he was busy with the project.
If you're sure you're still in love, none of this matters. To make life refreshing and comfortable, you only need to prepare a sieve to sift out all non principled issues.
2. No unwarranted suspicion and speculation
He came home very late yesterday. Speaking of one of his female colleagues, his eyes dodged. Last quarter, he didn't hand in his bonus. I'm afraid he set up a small coffer... If a woman wants to trouble herself, even if the whole world tries to save her, it's useless. Is there any evidence that he has changed his mind? Don't daydream without it. Besides, if he really changes his mind, will you die? Of course not, someday in the future, you may also want to thank him for giving you a chance to live better and meet a better man.
3. Be a "growth stock" at all times
Regardless of whether your man is a "potential stock" or a "blue chip stock", if you are a "junk stock" yourself, sooner or later you will lose him. Only by being a "growth stock" can we have the possibility of falling in love with him all the time. Therefore, it is right to strive to be a tree that grows towards the sky at any time.
4. Occasionally treat men as children
Transposition thinking is a very important personal skill. In today's society, every man is like a horse running a long distance, without a destination, only a long way. When he comes home from work and falls asleep on the sofa, or refuses to get up for breakfast on Sunday morning, consider him a helpless and tired child. Occasional pampering and indulgence will only make men more faithful around you.
5. Recall pleasant events
Pleasant and unpleasant memories are two sides of the same coin that exist in every relationship. Do you know the butterfly effect? People who often pretend to be unhappy in their hearts will really become unhappy in life. On the contrary, if you remember the expression on his proposal, the warmth in his arms, and the tenderness in his warm feet on a snowy day during a quarrel, your feelings will spiral upward.
6. Frequent reflection
The words I said in anger last time were really too hurtful. Even a missile was extinguished. He was ill, and you even ran out to meet your old lover. Clearly aware of his recent business situation and difficulties, he is still clamoring to change to a large house. Frequent reflection can not only make people around you happy, but also make you more and more excellent.
