Post Date December, 03 2023
First, career is always the most important
Someone once said that a man's maturity depends first on his attitude towards his career. Most mature men place their career at the top of their list, surpassing marriage and love. The reason why they have this mentality is that they all have a desire for self worth. This desire is the possession of wealth and power, the emotional need to control and be appreciated. It has a strong sense of what Liu Bei said: "Women are clothes, brothers are like hands and feet."!
Second, being used to freedom and unwilling to be bound by marriage
Marriage means responsibility, and most responsibilities are assumed at the expense of personal freedom. Therefore, for a mature man who has been accustomed to living alone for most of his life, if not as a last resort, he is absolutely unwilling to easily accept the shackles of marriage. In their eyes, freedom is the driving force of life and life. Even for the sake of his beloved woman, he will not give up freedom and enter marriage against his heart.
Third, too much emphasis is placed on taste, preferring lack to abuse
Most men with successful careers and mature minds have their own unique taste in seeing and handling things, as do women and choosing marriage. They will not easily fall in love with a woman, and even if they are in love, they will not necessarily casually find a time to marry into the family. They like to act according to their own tastes and plans. Even if the timing and taste are slightly incorrect, they will not choose to compromise, preferring to miss and miss, rather than compromise and take risks.
Fourth, I have experienced too much and have little confidence in marriage
In today's society, the more experienced people are, the less confidence they have in marriage. Because they see too much, listen too much, feel and realize too much. In their opinion, since marriage is increasingly unable to give people freedom and happiness, why do they still strive to drill into the besieged city of marriage? This is completely controllable for mature people.
Fifth, not getting married is also a justifiable state of existence
Forgive the sky for always being blue, but our current marriage is far from what it used to be. Perhaps marriage is more than just a piece of paper, and there is basically no big difference between pre marriage and post marriage. "What can be done after marriage can still be done before marriage, but what can be done before marriage cannot be done casually after marriage.". Therefore, based on society's infinite tolerance for gender relations, more people have taken non marriage as a normal state of existence, with the benefits of happiness and freedom.
Sixth, there is really too little time left for marriage
"I have a friend in his early forties who is outstanding in both career and intelligence, but who has been hesitant to enter the palace of marriage.". Whenever many enthusiastic friends around him mentioned marriage issues, the one thing he answered the most was, "Originally, one person's time was not enough. If there were one or two more people who wanted to compete with me, I really couldn't imagine it!" In fact, the truth is that marriage is not simply about signing a marriage certificate and sleeping together, but more often it requires time and energy to communicate Appreciation and management, if not able to do this, do not fulfill this responsibility, it is really better than a person's life.
