1、 Career oriented spouse selection psychology
In fact, everyone is willing to attach importance to this point, and hopes that their target can become a pillar of the pillars of talent, leading in their work and career. However, due to various factors, at present, there are only a few people with this kind of mate selection psychology, but there are still a large number of people among the intellectual group.
They regard their work achievements and career progress as the greatest happiness in life. "Whether the other party has a sense of career and a spirit of hard work is an important weight on the balance of choosing a spouse, and the happiness of love is pinned on the struggle of the career.". This kind of love is eternal due to the eternal nature of the cause.
2、 The psychology of spouse selection in pursuit of spiritual satisfaction
With the progress of social civilization and the improvement of people's cultural quality, there are more and more people with this swollen mate selection psychology. They focus on each other's thoughts and feelings, moral qualities, personality preferences, etc., and pursue mutual spiritual communication and emotional harmony. As long as one can enjoy and satisfy oneself mentally, even if the other person's economic conditions, physical condition, and other aspects are not good, it doesn't matter. This kind of love based on the spirit is noble, and many love stories that are widely rumored belong to the pursuit of this scale of love psychology.
3、 The psychology of choosing a spouse with the supremacy of money
This type of mate selection psychology is relatively common, especially in economically backward areas. "They put the financial situation of each other first, and their marriage is to obtain a safe haven that can satisfy their needs for food, clothing, housing, and play, or to rely on them for survival.". This kind of marriage based on material and money is not reliable, because economic conditions can be changed. It often loses the attraction that unites the hearts of the two people due to the loss of favorable material conditions for the other party, and thus has to go their separate ways.
4、 The psychology of choosing a spouse to seek political support
This psychology of choosing a spouse was quite common in feudal society, where they established their official career through marriage or consolidated nepotism in the officialdom, known as political alliances. Although this psychology of choosing a spouse is not common nowadays, there are still many people who take advantage of it to achieve other goals. They do not pay attention to the emotional and psychological compatibility of the two people, let alone their confidants, and place the hidden motives behind marriage in the first place of love. This kind of love is also unreliable.