Post Date April, 15 2023
In the early stages of male and female communication, it was because both parties could attract each other that two strangers became the closest lovers. However, as they grew stronger and stronger together, the more they understood each other, and the conflicts that would arise at this time also increased. Some couples even experienced some qualitative changes in this relationship over time. For men, "If their girlfriend has the following characteristics, it will definitely make men shy away. Although men say they like novelty, they will also worry about women when these conditions occur.".
Six characteristics that men are most afraid of women
1: The phone and message never stop
Some girls will become like detectives when they talk about love, greeting each other with three meals, or even adding a midnight snack. The typical content of a heavy female killer serial call is nothing more than boring content such as "What are you doing?" "Where are you?". In other words, boys and girls have different innate brain structures and different ideas about how often to communicate. For boys, this excessive concern is not love, but at best control.
2: Strong desire to get married
Some women who have reached the age of marriage may appear very urgent about getting married, as if there is no such store after crossing the village. They completely forget that this will only scare away their partners. For men who don't want to get married that much, this is a heavy girl. Girls who may not speak clearly but often talk about the happiness of getting married and having a family of their own, but getting married is a very important thing for boys. Since then, he has become the pillar of the family and must be responsible for it. Therefore, it is necessary to think carefully, and constantly giving hints is just putting pressure on them.
3: Mom, not girlfriend
As the saying goes, what a man wants is a girlfriend, not an old woman. Most girls who put this sentence in perspective have a happy and happy life. Some girls just take care of their boyfriends as if they were their sons, such as what to eat for three meals or when they arrive at their boyfriends' house, they use a servant to wash clothes and wash the toilet. There is a popular saying on the internet that it is not unreasonable to raise your boyfriend as a son and be careful to beg for your daughter-in-law from outside!
On the other hand, when you do these things, it indicates that your boyfriend is not clean or lazy, which is actually hurting their self-esteem. "The most intelligent girl knows what it means to stay on top of everything. If you feel chaotic, don't go there or don't see it. You should know that doing too much won't do you any good.".
4: Association=Marriage
Falling in love is a beautiful thing, and it takes a lot of interaction to know if it's right or not. Whether we can live together can lead to the next stage. The so-called ideal object is different from person to person. If you just marry for the sake of marriage, there will definitely be other problems later, girls! Don't worry about getting married, please think twice!
5: Negative Female
In addition to being negative in thought, I am also a complainer. Some girls are really scary when they first complain about their work and their boss and colleagues, rather than asking for warmth and comfort when they see their boyfriends. "My boyfriend is also very tired at work, and at the same time, he also needs to calm your emotions. It's really too long for anyone to bear it.". No matter how much love you have, it can be worn to zero or just saying that your boyfriend's mood is completely ignored is also very bad.
6: Expecting too much from the other party
Sometimes appropriate pressure is a boost, but too much can only make people want to escape. It's easy for a girl to put all her expectations on her boyfriend when she loves someone too much. "Or if you have a fantasy attack and feel that your boyfriend should surprise or give gifts on Valentine's Day or Christmas, or on your birthday, you'll get mad when it doesn't happen, and feel like your boyfriend isn't interested.". This excessive expectation of the other half is also a form of valuing women.
Four types of "vulnerable women"
1: Likes to make boyfriends jealous
When your favorite boyfriend or husband is jealous for himself, it can be somewhat enjoyable. However, intentionally uploading a group photo with a male friend and other behaviors that make a boyfriend or husband jealous are not acceptable. When the other person feels unhappy, it is possible to deliberately travel with other women for revenge, and some of these situations may actually develop into an affair. Therefore, it is also necessary to pay attention to the behavior of causing the other party to become overly jealous.
2: Love like a little devil
People who use their love skills to seduce men like playing games should pay attention. Because to the other person, you may just be a part of his game. If it's a game, as long as you win, you want to challenge the next game. In other words, even if it develops into a relationship, the other person may already be looking for the next goal during the relationship.
3:2 People who have a clear master-slave relationship and are subordinate to each other
The other party the final say everything. "At home, it is necessary to cook food for him, and to eat out depends on his mood.". A complete master-slave relationship like this must also be noted.
It is very dangerous to have a subordinate relationship with the other party and to be in a subordinate position. This is because your attitude towards him will always be in a "state of readiness". Human charm is generated in the most natural circumstances. "If someone finds themselves in a constant state of cooperation, the time they spend with you can also become very boring for them.".
In addition, when you have thoughts like "I don't match him", it is possible to show a humble attitude. In this way, he may feel that you don't have your own personality, and naturally become interested in other women, leading to an affair.
4: Always suspected that he had an affair
It's easy to feel uneasy, and it's not good for people who often want to find out signs of an affair. If you have nothing to do, observe the other person's words and actions or confirm their itinerary. Gradually, for the other person, the time together with you can become a source of pain. Over time, you will feel tired of your relationship and naturally fall into the arms of other women.
Summary: If the above situation occurs to women in general, then men will definitely avoid you. "Whether men or women, they do not want their freedom to be controlled, which can make them feel tired. Although you two are one, you should not interfere with personal freedom more. However, the premise here is to make your other half feel more secure. Women's sixth sense is more sensitive, and they are also more sensitive. When men have a bit of trouble, they cannot hide it from them.", Therefore, the greatest protection for women is to be self-conscious, and of course, they won't become paranoid anymore.
