Post Date April, 15 2023
Many boys don't know whether some of her expressions are hidden in the possibility of love or just out of gentleness and elegance. Be good to me=like me, this is the way boys think. But in the psychology of girls, gentleness may only be commonly used as a small mask, and the true small signal of favoritism is often manifested in other places.
1. When talking to you, which direction is your body facing?
No matter how she smiles and speaks fluently, to know if she has a good impression of you, please first look at her body orientation. When sitting, even if her upper body leans towards you, as long as her feet are facing in the opposite direction or folded up properly, it indicates that her heart has not yet given you.
If speaking while standing, observe the distance between the two people. Generally speaking, an intimate distance is within fifty centimeters. But wait to draw a conclusion, and then look at her body language. Is it defensive? For example, is it holding an arm? If not, she has little vigilance towards you.
2. Farewell performance
We are about to break up, for example, we have already arrived at the station, and you walk away in two directions. After two or three steps, does she turn around to see you? If she just goes away like this and doesn't look back, it means that you are just a simple friend relationship. (Relationship between superiors and subordinates, customer relationship, to be considered separately)
3. SMS frequency
You are still in the exploratory stage, try sending mood messages that are unrelated to work or business. If you reply immediately, it indicates that your intentions are towards each other; If you reply within two or three hours and add words like 'busy with work, I'm sorry I just saw it', you can still pursue it. On the contrary, I suggest you give up. If the other party is someone who doesn't like text messaging, let's not say otherwise. If she frequently communicates with you through text messages and likes to send photos, such as which store she is currently in, what interesting things she sees, etc., her good feelings are about to come out.
4. Eyes don't lie
First, ask her the simplest question, what do you like to eat and what do you dislike to eat. At this point, what you need to observe is her line of sight. There is a line of sight theory that studies NLP in neural language, which holds that the direction of a person's gaze is unconscious but specific when they develop feelings of likes and dislikes. So, it's important to know her emotional baseline and remember the eye directions of "like" and "don't like". Next, ask a question in a natural way that connects her to you. For example, asking if she wants to go to a restaurant with you? At this point, observe the direction of her gaze again, is it "like" or "don't like"? You know if she really wants to date you.
No matter how well she says it, if her gaze is not on the "like" side, I'm sorry, this may just be social etiquette.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
