Post Date December, 02 2023
Women are also sensitive and fragile emotionally. When they are protected and valued, they will be happy like children, and when they are slightly hurt and indifferent, they will immediately withdraw their goodwill and resist others, which is a self-protective instinct.
The reason why women take the initiative to break up is mostly because: she felt aggrieved when she was hurt, and you didn't comfort and apologize in time; She felt that you two were a bit out of character and couldn't survive, so she chose to flee the relationship; She is often left out by you and rarely receives your care and care.
The relationship between you two has severely constrained her personal development, and she feels suffocated and unable to bear it. From the perspective of reasons, there are also other sources, which will not be listed again. After your girlfriend took the initiative to break up, you realized the seriousness of the matter. How can you recover her?
Have the courage to admit mistakes and take responsibility. There must be a reason for everything. Through observation, we can roughly know the reason why my girlfriend proposed to break up. If it's really your behavior or language that hurts her, or as a boyfriend, you're not doing the right thing, then a true, well cultivated man should take the initiative to admit his mistakes and improprieties to his girlfriend, admit them in a timely manner, and correct them without sacrificing face or playing macho. By then, the other person's heart will really cool, and it will be difficult to recover the situation. After all, there is still a need for practical action. A man who believes that women hate rhetoric but never takes practical action.
Have a firm attitude and a confident heart. As long as you decide to retrieve this relationship, you should not be afraid of difficulties, be shy, and always believe that you can succeed. Your determination and confidence can subtly affect your girlfriend. She may have proposed to break up, but her heart is full of contradictions, uneasiness, and swings. She is unsure of your thoughts. At this moment, you give her a hint of positive energy, And gave your love life again.
Avoid walking into negative areas. I have seen many men who are dying when their girlfriend wants to leave him. They complain and complain in front of their friends every day, write some bitter and affectionate words, and send them to QQ Space and WeChat friends. It seems that they desperately hope their girlfriend can know and come back to him with a soft heart, but the effect is not satisfactory. Just imagine, would a girlfriend like a man who complains and is negative all day? Moreover, if you devalue yourself and let your girlfriend take precedence over you, what would your girlfriend think? She can only find another man who is equal to or higher than herself.
Actions are more powerful than words. Sometimes a gentle kiss and a powerful hug are more useful than thousands of explanations. When a woman proposes to break up, sometimes she doesn't really want to leave you, but she lacks a sense of security and can't feel your love for her for a while. "You take her overbearingly into your arms and let her angry little fists hit you. When she's finished venting her emotions, she bends over affectionately and kisses her, and she slowly calms down. All misunderstandings and mistakes are virtually resolved.".
At the same time, in the process of retrieving your girlfriend, it is also necessary to avoid some misunderstandings, such as constantly begging, saying sorry, and constantly harassing the other party. These practices do not express your apology, but rather demean yourself and make the other party more dislike you. Mastering some methods will increase the probability of recovering love.
