Q:
"Occupation is glamorous, spending is luxurious, life is enviable, but the taste is personal.". My 29th and 30th birthday is next month. As usual, it will be a very lively party, but how many people in the carnival really mean it? I can see better than anyone else.
"I dropped out of college. Since my sophomore year, I have followed a pretty looking sister in my dorm to take pictures of the store. I'm not a professional model, of course. Being beautiful is a kind of capital, and the advantage is that I can earn a lot of money while I'm young.". I abandoned my studies and graduated into the company for this reason? How much can I earn? It's better to rely on one's own efforts. God hasn't arranged a beautiful face for everyone, just to distinguish between people? In my opinion, there is no difference between earning money by strength and earning income by appearance. Do whatever you are good at.
"I've also been in love, and my boyfriend is naturally very handsome, but unfortunately, it doesn't last long. Just as he suspects that I have other men besides him, I don't believe he only loves me. The two people were so suspicious of each other that they soon parted.". Are you sad? Not really. "After he left, I just continued my life and called a group of friends when I wanted to play, but the venue broke up and I was still alone.".
I don't know why. The longer I stay in this circle, the farther away I am from my normal marriage life. Many of the beautiful people around me are taken care of by the rich second generation or the rich first generation, or are nominally girlfriends, but they will not be introduced to their families at all, and it is impossible to have a public relationship. I admit, I have had a time, but that experience, although brief, is something I have never wanted to recall in my life. The feeling of being called upon to be disrespectful is truly unbearable. "The person lying next to you, you do very intimate things, but they don't even have you in their eyes and hearts, and even look down on you. When they are happy, they give you some money, and when they are generous, they don't have a thousand yuan. However, most of the time, they are left out. It can only be because they need you, not because you need him. That is to say, when they think of someone like you, you must come along as soon as possible, but if you find him, I'm sorry, who are you?"? For what? Don't bother me. Moreover, the speed with which he changes partners is too fast for you to imagine.
Why is beauty also a mistake? Is being beautiful doomed to loneliness? I don't want to be anyone's lover anymore. I used to use my youth as a capital to make profits for myself, but now, as I grow older, the loneliness that plagues me day after day, I want to have a good love, but where is that person?
Answer:
Why is it important to say that circles are important? The love views of the people around you can affect you. If no one around believes that ordinary emotions can flow through a lifetime, then you will also find it ridiculous for two people to be together in ordinary circumstances. In fact, most love affairs are vigorous and vigorous for a while, while mediocrity and insipidity are lasting.
Your loneliness comes from fear of the future. You lack love, but you dare not love. Your vision has been elevated, but your comprehensive conditions have not kept up. This is not only a matter of wealth, whether the lovers match, but also depends on many factors such as the growth environment, knowledge, interests, and life philosophy of both parties. "It's easy to fall in love but difficult to get along with, because falling in love with someone can be done without considering their background, but living together can lead to various conflicts and frictions if they are not compatible.".
It's time to say goodbye to your past lifestyle. If you desire an ordinary home life, then you should try to understand what kind of family an ordinary man needs and what kind of life he likes.