Many couples are looking for excuses for divorce, but in fact, they are unwilling to face a problem that is sexual life. Marriage breakdown due to sexual disharmony has accounted for half of the divorce rate, and visibility is an important matter. Marriage experts once said that sex life is the most solid foundation of marriage, and harmonious and happy sex can maintain marital relationships and emotions. So, how can the importance of sexual life be reflected?
First, harmonious sexual life makes couples no longer lonely
Couples also experience loneliness, which is caused by a lack of communication and intimate contact. Some scholars have found that if one spouse devotes all their energy to work. Ignoring the concern for a spouse can result in a spouse's indifference to their sexual relationship. When possible, they will seek new sexual relationships. The sexual life between husband and wife is the bond to maintain their love; It is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional communication.
Second, sexual vitality is the new driving force of marriage
A monotonous sexual life means that the entire person is also monotonous, which is an inevitable result. After a few years of marriage, the enthusiasm begins to cool, and there is no longer any mysterious temptation for each other in terms of physical and mental aspects. If both spouses cannot explore and find new and more satisfactory lifestyles, some unwilling loners will seek external moments of joy. Therefore, if couples want to add freshness and vitality, they must also start from their sexual life. Adding some fun and playing some new tricks can make each other more intimate and "lively".
Third, sex is a necessity for couples
Mishandling of sexual life between couples can also sow the seeds of sin in an affair. In this regard, women seem to have more responsibility. Generally speaking, men's desire for sexual life is stronger than women's, and sometimes they have to compromise in front of their wives in order to obtain opportunities for sexual life. Some women discover this secret and use sex as a means of coercion and restraint, but even as they become complacent, boredom and disgust are quietly rooted in their husbands' consciousness.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)