In daily life, it is normal for couples to argue and even break up, but behind these normal things, there are some abnormal psychology hidden. It is precisely because of these abnormal psychological factors that the relationship between couples plummeted and eventually led to a breakup. So, what are the psychological factors that women cannot express to their beloved men in their relationship?
The psychology of loving someone must not be manifested
1. Don't constantly try out men, let alone use breakups as a threat. When you often give them psychological cues, their subconscious will be ready to break up. Probing is not trusting, and using a breakup threat to mistrust is even more wrong, which can make a man doubt your love for him. When a man really agrees, you're not just a chicken flying egg.
2. Don't expand your rights unlimited just because a man loves you, don't interfere with his ideals, beliefs, and pursuits, don't think you see farther than a man, he must have some traits that you don't understand. Sometimes the essence of emotions is trading, where a man exchanges his love for your love, rather than getting even worse for you. If you mistakenly believe that a man's concession is a reverence for you, then your emotions are not far from death.
3. Don't be late often, don't think that if a man loves you, he should have infinite patience. A person's patience is limited, and when patience wears off, it should wear off love. There is a saying: Don't wait until men lose patience to remember temptation. There is also a saying: China is not lacking women the most. So don't make men wait too long.
4. Don't confide in him just because he is the closest person to you. Give him all your misfortunes, pain, grievances, and complaints, and use him as an outlet. A man is not a waste buying station. When he confirms that he cannot change you, he will have to flee. Occasionally recounting your misfortunes will bring inner venting and sympathy from men. But being sentimental and worried about things that may not necessarily happen can make men very uncomfortable. Which would you choose between a partner who often smiles and a partner who looks unlucky?
In the editor's opinion, if a woman shows the above mentality towards her beloved man, it is undoubtedly triggering a bomb, which is extremely dangerous. Perhaps the lead wire of this bomb is long (your boyfriend has a very good temper), but it cannot withstand the ravages of time. Therefore, if you truly love a man, the above six psychological states must not be expressed to him, otherwise you may suffer from the "bomb" attack.