Post Date December, 02 2023
There will be many unhappy things when falling in love. However, sometimes the most troublesome thing for men is to make mistakes in the face of their girlfriend, but they don't know how to deal with it, because sometimes it is really she who made mistakes, but when she blames her again, she can ignore you for a few days, and finally become their own fault. Many men are silent when facing this situation, Because it seems that no matter what you do or say about her mistakes, you have to get the forgiveness of your girlfriend before giving up. In fact, it's just the wrong way you deal with it.
Girlfriends must hate being blamed
If you really like your girlfriend and she has done something wrong, it's better to say it. If you don't release your emotions in your heart, it will be superimposed on the later communication. However, when pointing out the mistakes of your girlfriend, you must pay special attention to the way. Because no one likes to be blamed, the most important thing is that you must let her know that you are for her good, and you have her in your heart.
To point out her mistakes, it is better to start from the perspective of "what is bad for her to do so". After all, it is easier to get her understanding and easier for her to accept.
Be prepared to defend herself
In any case, if you point out your girlfriend's mistake, it will definitely lead her to defend herself, because human nature tends to defend herself, which is certain. So, if she defends herself a few words, don't worry. Listen carefully to her. If she is a good girl with good character, she will soon realize her mistakes.
Remember not to scold in front of outsiders
"Teach your son in front of you and your wife behind your back" is an old Chinese saying. After all, we are all adults. If we haven't established a close relationship, we can even say that we are strangers. So it is even more important to remember this sentence. Be sure to save her face and not point out her mistakes in front of outsiders, including in WeChat group. To flirt with girls, you must talk privately, and private talk can only spark.
Reflect on whether you have problems
Sometimes when a girlfriend makes a mistake, she can't take full responsibility on her. She also needs to reflect on whether it is her own cognitive mistake. After all, because of the difference in knowledge structure and life experience, everyone's ideas are different, even different, so we need to put ourselves in the girl's shoes. Is it really her fault? Could it be that you have different perceptions of one thing?
Remember not to turn over old accounts in the future
This is often very important. Many relationships fall apart in the process of turning over old accounts again and again. So if your girlfriend is fully aware of her mistakes, then don't mention them again. After all, no one likes to be mentioned about their embarrassing affairs again and again. The girl's willingness to accept your criticism shows that she still trusts you. If you always repeat it, the girl will feel insecure.
Summary: Now you know why she made mistakes, but it turned out to be her own. Have you done the above five things to your girlfriend? If you make up a small story and believe that she will admit her mistakes, you don't need to blame her at all. You know that women don't want their boyfriends to blame themselves even after they do wrong things. They want men to tolerate everything they have. If you take these into account, your girlfriend who believes in you will also take the initiative to admit mistakes.
