Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 Before and after the wife became pregnant
Because wives often have no time to worry about themselves at this time, some husbands who have not lost their playfulness tend to appear irritable and seek comfort from other opposite sex quietly. For this reason, pregnancy
The wife should try to control her own mood swings and try to maintain her own attractiveness. In particular, she should make good use of the role of mother to be and father to be to enhance their feelings.
2、 After separation
If you have no choice but to live in two places due to work, household registration and other reasons, it is essential to maintain close contact. Modern means of communication are diverse, and love letters, e-mail, telephone, ICQ, etc. can be used comprehensively to weave a network of feelings as far as possible. Of course, it is better to arrange time to get together on festivals or some special days (such as birthdays and wedding anniversaries). As for people who are separated artificially because of conflicts, they should be treated calmly with a problem-solving attitude and should not be blindly angry, because anger can only drive people mad and make people seek emotional affairs. Moreover, such separation can only happen occasionally, and a short time limit should be set. Once separation becomes a habit, it is easy to break up.
3、 It is when the work changes, such as the husband is laid off and the work is frustrated
People need to find the fulcrum and happiness in life at work. Once faced with unemployment and frustration, it is inevitable that they will feel depressed and lost. If you don't get your wife's strong care and support at this time, it's easy to make your feelings run away from your family. Your wife must not be careless.
4、 When the status changes, such as the husband gets promoted and gets rich
It is self-evident that we should be full of warmth and lust. In addition to being happy with the progress of the husband, the wife should also have a sense of pressure, and strive to turn pressure into power, and constantly seek progress. Don't hold the old tune of respecting your husband and wife, because it can only make you sit back and enjoy your success. Once your husband feels that you can't catch up, he may run away by himself. Then you can't wait to cry.
5、 When the family changes
There is an example of a couple who originally loved each other so much that their 3-year-old daughter suddenly died of illness. Under great grief, the wife complained that her husband did not take good care of her daughter all day, which made her husband unbearable and had to escape. She went out to drink, gamble and stay at night until she had an extramarital affair and left home. Therefore, when similar situations occur, it is useless to blame, complain, resent and struggle. Only a peaceful, positive and common attitude can face misfortune. This is especially noteworthy for more emotional wives.
6、 When there is conflict with her husband's family, which makes her husband at a loss
The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often troubled the marriage, which was a rather thorny problem for the husband. When he could not deal with it, he had to abandon himself and flee alone.
The above cannot be generalized. But by holding the pass, we can keep the city intact. Grasp the critical moment when the above husbands are easy to cheat, you can get twice the result with half the effort and protect the happy and happy family.
