According to common understanding, extramarital love usually occurs in families where the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious. In fact, in real life, even if the relationship between husband and wife seems to be enjoyable and free from any obstacles, it is difficult to guarantee that "third parties" will definitely not intervene.
Some couples have always had a harmonious marriage, with no disputes or disagreements between them. However, the key issue why a husband cheats is that the wife never takes into account her husband's voice. As a wife, she did not listen to her husband's voice, solve his problems, and enable others to take advantage of it. "My husband never had a dispute with her, but in the end, he chose to let go because he didn't find a" bosom friend "feeling in Xiao Luo.".
Lack of "bosom friends" accelerates the breakdown of marriage
After marriage, forming a family, having a child, returning home from work with endless chores, endless purchases of fuel, rice, oil, and salt, and the words of love have been replaced by pots and pans. If the nature of work and the focus of life are different between husband and wife, there will be a lack of "common language". Let the life of a couple be dull and boring. Although the surface is calm, the heart is extremely lonely.
If one of the couples focuses on their work, or goes to work at their desks as soon as they get home, without hearing about household matters, the common language between the couple will only become less and less, resulting in a long-term lack of emotional communication. At this time, emotions are like "firecrackers", as long as someone ignites the fire, it will explode. If a third party inserts in the name of caring, it can make the neglected partner in the couple think they have found a "bosom friend", and then the tragedy of extramarital love occurs.