Post Date December, 03 2023
After ten years of marriage, many housewives will worry about their aging, and their love with their other half will gradually enter a fatigue period. When he may not frequently praise your beauty, no longer send you pink bottle of perfume, and roses will disappear. What can I use to attract him again? If he doesn't pay much attention to you anymore, you may need some changes.
Scheme 1: Food Planner
Most women believe that cooking and washing clothes every day is a virtuous woman, and naturally they will be recognized by men. In fact, this idea is wrong. A 20 year old woman occasionally appears in front of the Guotai and plays a charming wizard role that attracts men. However, if a woman in her thirties is always around the pot table, it is easy to be considered a full-time housewife.
Detergents can make your hands rough, and oil fumes can accelerate the aging of the face's skin. These should be very careful and should not be ignored. Perhaps you think your cooking level is very high and the food you cook is very delicious; You also think you washed the dishes very clean and wiped the kitchen spotlessly. However, men's thinking is very intuitive. No matter how fragrant the dishes you cook, they are not as delicious as those cooked in restaurants outside; "No matter how clean the bowl is, he doesn't have a magnifying glass to look at it. I don't know how hard you have worked for it.". "If you let him see you hovering in front of the pot table every day after work, and if you properly utter a few complaints, it will mean that you are no longer the woman he appreciates.".
Therefore, a wise housewife should persuade her husband to often go to the kitchen. No matter how unpleasant his dishes are, you should praise him and give him a affectionate kiss, so as to gradually cultivate his sense of achievement and be willing to go to the kitchen for you.
And your charm must be reflected in the preparation before meals. You can decorate the dining atmosphere in a romantic way, and then wear gorgeous or charming clothes to make him unforgettable at the moment of eating, even starting to fantasize during the meal. Although you have been a couple for ten years, you should always create such an atmosphere.
Programme 2: Social activists
Some women love watching Korean TV dramas, so they learn from Korean women and are accustomed to staying at home on weekends. "However, not all women in South Korea spend time with their husbands and children at home. They often stay at home only when they are old.".
"When a tired man comes home and sees you watching TV, if you give him a bitter melon face, it's a perfect match. It's difficult to hate you or not.". A woman who is always used to staying at home can make men feel very unproductive, so women should boldly go out of the house and actively participate in social activities, even shopping.
The age of 30 is not the end of a woman's social activities, but the beginning of a woman. At the age of 30, women have the ability to communicate with others and a mature charm, which allows them to have more friends.
Women in their 30s have leisure and money, can be more independent and unrestrained, and can have more "nutritional essential oils" to soak their hearts: tea art, yoga, listening to music, and dancing in the national standard dance. These are all activities that women in their 30s should participate in.
When you make tea in front of him, when you occasionally play the guitar, when you dance a tango for him in front of him in a dance suit, and when you stretch out and perform two yoga movements, how can he not be fascinated by you in front of him?
When participating in social activities, it is also necessary to socialize with two male friends, and to know that marriage also follows the "jungle law". When there are no wolves, the deer are very lazy and die early; When the wolf appears, the deer keeps running to maintain their vitality. Therefore, it is better to add two "friendly wolves" to your marriage in a timely manner.
Option 3: Financial Advisor
"Why don't you hand in your salary this month?" "Say, what's the matter with the 2000 yuan in your shoe box?" When you ask such a question, how can you not make the man in front of you dislike it? "?
You know you couldn't bear to buy cosmetics and bought him a tie. You couldn't bear to buy fruit and bought him beer. You know better that you haven't spent all this money and are saving it up to buy him a car. "But if you don't say it, he won't know. He just thinks you know how to ask him for money. You only like money.". This is not good. When you become antagonistic due to money issues, you are no longer a lover and become his enemy. When money triggers confrontation, your marriage is like prison.
Save money, but don't lose your charm by saving it. Appropriate money always needs to be spent, such as weekend outings, watching movies, buying household gadgets on a daily basis, and occasionally going to coffee shops and bars with him. These can improve the quality of life and increase your attractiveness index.
When a smart woman pays for a man, she must let the other person know. For example, when you buy clothes with him, you must emphasize that the clothes are your choice and that you have a good eye for them; When eating together, be sure to ask the person if they like the food you choose. Even if you ask him for this month's salary, you should politely say, "Honey, in order to save money to buy a private car, let's tighten up a bit this month."
When he gives you his salary, you can reward him for going to a movie together, or buy him a small car model. Of course, you can treat him and ask him to pay for it.
