Post Date December, 03 2023
The emotions of couples do not become smooth sailing with each other's understanding or length of time spent together, and various crises may also arise. When these crises arise, timely rescue is the way out for marriage. And if Fang Bo follows the trend, it will only lead to the breakdown of the marriage. So, how can we know if there is a crisis in the marital relationship?
1. No longer focusing on body shape
For women, especially sexy ones, they all hope to have a perfect figure. But a study in the United States revealed that among the 2500 interviewed women who were known for their disharmonious and unhappy marital relationships, they gained an average of 54 pounds per person in the 10 years after marriage. Psychologist Richard, who conducted this study, analyzed: "For some women, weight gain can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for others, it can protect themselves from unnecessary sexual harassment. Of course, husbands will also have a significant decrease in interest in it
2. No more sweet words
We all know that there are many ways to express a meaning, and the way you speak to your spouse is one of the elements that make up a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. Sweet words to your wife, along with some teasing and teasing seasoning, can make the relationship between husband and wife easier to get along with. If you are no longer interested in sweet talking to your partner, this is a bad signal.
3. No closer contact
Intimate contact is one of the important manifestations of marital emotions. And if you are busy with various dances or gatherings with friends to reduce intimate contact with each other, you need to pay attention. Even at home, they are unwilling to say one more sentence and instead are busy watching TV, which makes it even more important to be vigilant.
4. No more public wedding photos
A wedding photo is a testament to the happiness of two people walking together. And if there are no longer photos of you in your room, even if there are, they will be scattered in the pile of debris under the bed, covered in dust. At this point, you need to reflect on yourself.
5. No longer mutually exclusive
If you are no longer exclusive to each other, it indicates that you have an intention to leave. For example, "Sometimes I want to leave him, but I never dare to think too much because I don't know how others will think of me, which makes me feel very embarrassed and I have to blame myself for daydreaming and not paying attention to him." If you often have such thoughts, then your marriage is very dangerous.
6. No more arguments between the two
Perhaps if you think that without arguments, it's just a happy marriage, then you're completely wrong. Those couples who argue all day are actually more likely to live together than couples who are feeling suffocated. An argument at least indicates that you still have enthusiasm and the courage to communicate sincerely. And that lazy and indifferent silence is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two types of arguments between husband and wife: one is anger, which dissipates and everything is peaceful; The second is subtle, and at this point, it is irreparable.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
