Post Date December, 03 2023
For an individual, multi-night love can be said to be an act of having sex with another person for many times (not once or indefinitely); At the same time, multi-night love can also be said to be a kind of emotion, that is, many times (not once and not unlimited) or for a period of time (not one night and not day and night) have an interest and favor for another person and have an attitude of acceptance, and have a happy and complex emotional experience in the process of contact with the other party.
Multi-night love is a social phenomenon for society and an objective phenomenon for human beings.
Psychology is the reflection of the objective world in the human brain. Specifically, the multi-night love psychology is the reflection of the objective phenomenon of multi-night love in the brain of multi-night lovers. The psychology includes knowledge, emotion and intention, so it can be analyzed from these three aspects:
Knowledge: cognition is the process of individual acquiring and using information. Cognition includes feeling, perception, memory, thinking, speech, imagination, etc. In the life experience of a multi-night love person, he may have obtained information about multi-night love through some way. In his mind, he will think that multi-night love is normal, understandable and acceptable. As for why he has so much love for another person, it may be related to his feeling, perception, memory, thinking, imagination, etc. For example, another person he meets may satisfy him in some or several senses, for example, the other person makes him happy in sight, in hearing, and in smell; Or the other party evokes a distant and intimate memory of him, such as the other party reminds him/her of a family and friend with good memories in his childhood, or even the other party looks like his first love lover who broke up for many years; Or he imagines the other person perfectly, which is more in line with his own communication standards than any other person around him during that time.
Emotion: that is, emotion is the attitude and corresponding inner experience of individuals when they know and contact with external things. Emotions can be divided into seven types: happiness, anger, sadness, sadness, fear and shock. A multi-night lover may have a positive attitude towards the phenomenon of multi-night love. In the process of multi-night love, he may experience a happy mood when recognizing and contacting the multi-night lover. It is also possible that multi-night love does not necessarily make him feel pure happiness, but let him get rid of sadness, sadness, fear, shock and other emotions, that is to say, knowing and contacting multi-night love objects, and when multi-night love occurs, let him experience happiness or let him get rid of unhappiness. Of course, there is also a possibility that the multi-night situation allows him to experience emotions that he cannot experience in ordinary life, such as fear, surprise and adventure. He may experience the fun of adventure and the pleasure of violating the ban through the multi-night situation. Another possibility is that the multi-night feeling allows him to experience multiple emotions at the same time, such as joy and surprise, joy and fear and other complex emotions. People have seven emotions, and any emotion is normal and necessary within an appropriate range. The multi-night emotion of multi-night lovers can meet some or several emotions that individuals can not experience in their past life.
Meaning: that is, will, desire and motivation. These concepts are basically similar, that is, individual's instinctive needs and primitive desires. People have six desires, and individual instinctive needs can be divided into physical needs and psychological needs. Physical needs, namely the so-called appetite, are the basic needs of individuals in food, drink, sleep and other aspects of clothing, food, housing and transportation. Psychological needs include the need for safety, love and belonging, respect and self-realization. The multi-night love of a multi-night lover will meet some or several of his physiological or psychological needs, such as his sexual needs, his need to be loved, and his need to be respected.
The relationship between multi-night love and individual psychology can be said to be like the relationship between chicken and egg. As for why it is a multi-night stand rather than a one-night stand, and it is not a lasting relationship, the three can only be said to have the difference in quantity, and there is no difference in nature, and in meeting the instinctive needs and desires of individuals. Of course, objective conditions are important factors that affect the quantity and duration of a behavior and an emotion. For example, on another occasion, he happened to meet the object who had a one-night stand. Under the objective conditions at that time, the two-night stand happened... But after the five-night stand, the other party went abroad, and the multi-night stand ended. Of course, whether it is one night or more nights, or whether it lasts for a long time, in addition to being affected by various objective conditions, is also related to the subjective thoughts of individuals. For example, a person thinks that he just wants to have multi-night love, and he thinks that multi-night love can meet his various needs in a balanced way, Instead of letting himself be in an imbalance (one need is satisfied, the other needs cannot be satisfied) or contradictory state (one need is satisfied, the other needs are lost), for example, multi-night love can meet his sexual needs without destroying his need for security; Or the one-night stand made him feel more than he wanted and tired of it for a long time, so he chose to have more one-night stands and felt that he could better satisfy himself. Multi-night love is the embodiment of people's sexual behavior, sexual concept and sexual emotion.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
