Post Date December, 03 2023
Men come to Mars and women come from Venus. It is not surprising that two people from different planets have communication barriers when they come together, because they have different ways of thinking, but as long as they try to avoid some "minefields" in life, they can make the relationship move forward steadily.
1. Don't give directions
For example, drive to an unfamiliar place and get lost accidentally. At this time, the wife is questioning the ability of a man by saying this kind of question sentence. You know, men boast that they have the best sense of direction. They don't need a navigator to go out. He was just trying to find his way, but his wife was beside him, and he couldn't stand the appearance of believing him. Men are animals who like to step on the accelerator when they quarrel. For the sake of everyone's safety, you'd better not talk.
2. Need timely praise
Both men and women have their own dignity and face. If one party takes pains to pay, the other party is ungrateful and does not collapse. So we should pay attention to strategy. For example, the wife has been working hard in the kitchen for two hours. Although the food is not delicious, it can not be pointed out directly and coldly. You can praise the wife first, and then say "it would be better if you could add some salt". The goal can also be achieved, and it also takes care of the mood of the little cook. How good.
3. Don't spill
Sometimes a woman says to a man, "You never care about my feelings!" Although the original intention is not so, for a man, this is to deny everything he has done in the past. Men's thoughts are usually straightforward. Women had better not exaggerate rhetoric. If they want him to pay attention to you, there is no need to be aggressive. Just be coquettish.
4. Pay attention to the way of speaking
If a woman comes back from shopping in high spirits, a man's cold "Where have you been?!" will make her furious. "Do you care where I go?" Don't blame my wife for returning you like this. Because what she heard in her husband's words is questioning except for doubt. Men never know gentleness, even if it is out of care. In fact, if you add a sentence "wife, I'm so worried about you" at the end, the effect may be much better.
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