Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, "When we go out, we look at the weather, and when we enter, we look at our faces." In interpersonal relationships, we need to learn to observe our words and expressions. Human speech is mainly divided into two types: verbal and nonverbal. Language is mainly composed of textual information, while non language is mainly composed of expressions, actions, expressions, etc. Observing one's words and expressions mainly involves looking at the other party's nonverbal information. When saving love, observing one's words and expressions is a very important basic skill.
Firstly, human nonverbal communication often does not deceive people.
Language can often be deceitful, but non language cannot. For example, when saving love, the other party may deliberately ignore you for the sake of face. And he also said things like: I never want to see you again. When we observe the other person's expression, they are not very angry. There seemed to be a glimmer of anticipation in her eyes, and it was obvious that she did not necessarily mean to break up, as if there was still room for improvement. At this point, when we capture this information, we must not give up and strive to win over her. Perhaps when we force her into our arms, regardless of what she says, the relationship between the two will heat up.
Secondly, we can know the other party's reaction to ourselves by observing their words and expressions.
When the love between two people faces a crisis and needs to be saved, the language communication channels between them are often limited. The common state is that you keep talking to her a lot about your sincerity, but she doesn't say a word. You call her, and she ignores you. She will take your words lightly. When we cannot perceive the other party's response to ourselves through their language, we need to learn to observe their words and understand their nonverbal information. For example, when you talk to her, although she is silent, she is listening attentively, occasionally looking into your eyes, which indicates that she is still very interested in what you are saying. You can continue to talk about related topics. If you keep chattering and see her expression getting increasingly ugly, even feeling like she's about to collapse, then it's best not to talk about such a topic anymore, it will only make her dislike you more and more. So when saving love, it is necessary to learn to observe the words and expressions, so as to know what actions one can take and what actions the other party can accept.
Thirdly, observing words and expressions can help us better understand each other.
If we can understand each other's true thoughts through their facial expressions and postures, it can promote the relationship between two people. For example, we see that the other party is very tired and exhausted. We said to the other party, "Let me rest with you for a while." I believe the other party will think you understand her very well. When you see that she is a bit dry and thirsty, you hand her a glass of water, and she will definitely feel warm inside. When you realize that she is very weak and bravely embrace her, her heart will definitely melt.
When saving love, learning to observe one's words and expressions is a very important ability. This will make the path of recovery much smoother.
