Many women complain that although they are beautiful enough, can act spoiled and dress very fashionable, but men are only willing to fall in love with her and have sex with her, and don't want to marry her to enter the door even if they die. What are the principles for men to choose a wife? Let's take a look!
It is said that women are realistic, and men must be rich and have houses, and even willing to be rich lovers or mistresses for money. In the current society, money is the most important thing, so it is not easy to blame these women who pursue fame and wealth. However, there are many women who are not affected by money. They care about men's past. There are hidden rules in the workplace, and there are also hidden rules in love. The hidden rules are hidden in every corner of every industry. But do you know that there are also hidden rules for men to choose women? Love and marriage are two different stages. Men may choose a sexy and attractive beauty as their love partner, but they may not regard her as their future marriage partner. When entering the marriage stage, men are always very particular. Let's see what hidden rules men have when choosing women.
1. Don't be a spoiled wife:
It seems to be women's patent and nature to play coquettish. Women who play coquettish will arouse men's inner desire for protection and make them feel strong. But if a man thinks about marriage, he doesn't want a little woman who can only play coquettish. What he wants is a wife who can experience wind and rain with him, strong and confident, and has fun in life.
When in love, or when he is young, a man will choose a woman who can act spoiled as his girlfriend, which can show his masculinity. But when choosing his wife, he is not so. Men are very insecure animals. They are afraid that one day when they are no longer rich and lose their jobs, you will still stay with them, so they will also lose confidence in the future.
The society has given men a heavy responsibility to support their families and protect their families. From childhood, they were taught to be strong, not to cry, not to be weak, and to be like men. In front of outsiders, he was very strong, but there were also weak and fragile moments in his heart. They only show their vulnerability in front of their closest people. So he needs a wife who can go through the storm with him, has a strong heart and understands tolerance. He knew that only such a person could make him fight and live without scruples.
2. Don't be frivolous:
Now people often have an ambiguous relationship. In love, you can maintain an ambiguous relationship with other people, but if you want to get married with him, please cut off all the lovers in your ambiguous relationship.
Men are possessive animals. If they think they are their own things, they won't let others own them at the same time. If you behave frivolously and even give him a green hat, then what is waiting for you is doomed to be a tragic end. When he thinks that you are not a casual woman and will not please other men through an ambiguous relationship, he will feel that it is a pleasant thing to love you and it is not easy to get it, and he will like you and accept you from the bottom of his heart. If you behave frivolously, then love will not last.