Now, what is the most? Of course, there are surplus men and women. The serious imbalance in the proportion of men and women leads to the emergence of surplus men and women in groups. With the growth of age, the remaining men and women who can't find the target are requisitioned by matchmaking conferences one after another. Faced with the matter of blind date, girls are always full of tears, saying that they can't meet a reliable man; And men are also filled with emotion, saying they can't find the girl they want. Next, let's take a look at the Remnant Men and Women's Remnant Dating Records.
Older leftover women say dating is not reliable
A female master's degree in Beijing spent more than 20 sessions during the winter vacation, none of which had any follow-up development. In her words, the reason for the failure is that none of the men in the more than 20 blind dates is willing to pay the bill!
The N female doctors in Wuhan, who have met with difficulties and been rejected as "doctors", have become more and more courageous and have spontaneously organized a "female doctor dating group" to go to the dating event! Don't stop until you get married!
Many female white-collar workers in Shanghai, the most important activity on the weekend is blind date, and there are many matches in a day, and even some people are like stars "rushing", one person an hour, straight to Zhang Guanli Dai, dizziness and brain swelling!
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There are many new things like this. Some leftover women said, "The fun of blind date is to go home and share with their girlfriends how amazing men are today
However, when the leftover girls talk about blind date so desperately and promise never to catch up with the big blind date episode, what do the older boys and girls who are called "Lei Ge" and "Lei Ye" by the leftover girls think about it?
The older male youth also have a lot of feelings
It's interesting to receive a letter from an older young man who has just experienced a blind date. It's very interesting. After reading, it is found that many girls complain that they are "left" because "men are too blind", but listen to the voice of men and you will find that the answer is the opposite. The remaining male letters are as follows:
I met her through our best friend. She is 28 years old, and she is also a leftover girl. But she gives me the impression that she is a perfect child and knows nothing! It is reasonable to say that a 28-year-old woman should at least be sensible, but she gives me the feeling that she is completely ignorant and naive! In the process of getting along, I found some problems:
1. She is always not serious enough. When we eat together, she either keeps her e-books in her hands, or she keeps talking with me by phone and text messages. It's me who is talking and she is listening, and occasionally responds.
2. She has a colleague (said to be her master) who is much older than her in a different place. She asks him everything from eating and common sense to the style of clothes and whether to buy them. My words are air to her. The most typical thing is that when we meet with differences, she can ignore my opinions directly and follow the advice of the master (it is simply unreasonable)!
3. The most frustrating thing for me is that we watched the movie together, and she could talk about the movie plot with her friends while watching it!
God! What kind of woman am I meeting?!
The mentality of leftover women today
The more blind dates, the lower the success rate. This is an iron fact!
When a person has set a goal in her heart, she can concentrate on communication. But when there are countless alternatives in a person's heart, the person opposite is doomed to become her passer-by. Because the key to the success of love is how high your concentration is.
When it comes to love, women think that the task of a man is to make a girl happy: it is his duty to make her happy; It is his incompetence to make her happy.
I have to say that nowadays many girls fall in love to enjoy love. In the end, what she needs is not lovers, but fans. They have been picking on each other's flaws, but they have just ignored: while she is picking on others, she is also being picked by them!
Say a reality that many leftover women do not want to admit: They say that the reason why leftover women are left is because of high requirements. However, a woman's excessive demands on mate selection directly reflect that she has a certain narcissistic complex in her heart. This part of women focus on themselves. In fact, she has never examined the world's evaluation of herself with a rational attitude!
A woman can have no wrinkles on her face, but she must have some experience in her heart. Otherwise, I don't know what is going on and what is going on. Such a girlfriend will only make men tired.
Like the 28-year-old girl in the male reader's letter, she is dependent on and obedient to the elderly master and has an Oedipal complex. Usually, the girl who loves her father has a strong sense of superiority, and her behavior in love is inevitably "selfish". Even in love, it is not to seek the combination of love, but to seek another "father" who spoils her. A 28-year-old girl is still single, which shows that love is not going well. There are always reasons why a woman is often abandoned by love. One of them is that her love is not attentive enough.
How to do when leftover women fall in love
She is always abandoned by love, which means that she doesn't understand "cooperation" at all, and always does the wrong thing at the right time.
In love, charming women know how to use their eyes, look at each other gently, and look up slightly from bottom to top. This slightly respectful affirmation is the most fascinating for men.
When dating, when the girl friend calls, try to say "I'm with my boyfriend!" in front of the girl friend at the end of the phone as much as possible. The man also hopes to get the affirmation of the woman. This "identity authentication" is also his reassurance.
Whenever, learn to communicate with him. Never show your closeness to other people in front of him. Speaking of jealousy, men are better than women.
Editor's summary:
Everyone wants the other party to do only one thing when dating: love him (her) wholeheartedly.
Every girl in love should understand this. And we should do it best.
Love only one person at a time. Fill your heart with only one person at a time.
In love, the most important thing is concentration, which is the best respect for the other party. It is also the most basic love etiquette.
Leftover women, who don't want to be called "childish" by men, should learn how to master the etiquette of love first!