Post Date December, 02 2023
In today's society, divorce has become as common as eating, and marital phobia is also rampant. When you pull your fingers, so many people around you are infected with "marriage phobia", and some even become terminally ill.
Marriage phobic people say that falling in love feels great and easy. Why use a wedding letter to tie two people together? Marriage is too troublesome, so it's better to be a lover. If you get together, you'll get together. If you don't agree, you'll get separated. There's no psychological burden. They "rationally" believe that as time goes by, there will always be times when they are tired of each other. Why should they restrain others and themselves? Therefore, they always hold a wait-and-see attitude towards marriage and are unwilling to bet their happiness on their future spouse. Those who have narrow horizons and are obsessed with the world of two people all day are the most unproductive in the eyes of those who fear marriage.
There are always many kind-hearted and old-fashioned people in the ear of those who are afraid of marriage, constantly persuading them that it is time to get married when they are not young. However, there are some reasons for those who fear marriage to linger outside the besieged city, afraid of losing their freedom, afraid of being trapped by their wives and children, and afraid that marriage will ruin their existing happiness.
Marriage phobics worry that they will eventually be unable to avoid the vulgar outcome of marriage, and who can't predict whether their long future will be happy or not. Perhaps one day, those who fear marriage will gnash their teeth and persuade themselves to overcome their fear of marriage, stepping on the red carpet with fear and thin ice, but the huge psychological obstacles may still make them feel a strong sense of loss. Although I have repeatedly emphasized to myself that marriage is not as scary as I imagined, a sense of stress or fear still lingers.
Marriage phobic people say: Love makes people unable to sleep, marriage makes people sleepy! The only way to prolong love is to postpone marriage! The historical significance of marriage is that the "red line" connecting two people will henceforth become a rope!
Women have the attribute of water, men have the attribute of fire, and marriage is an attempt to make water and fire compatible!
"Marriage phobia" is a very representative modern social psychological disease. The negative publicity of public opinion on marriage life is one of the causes of "marriage phobia". The media often carries out various discussions on how to handle marital relationships. This social atmosphere makes people who have not yet entered marriage feel an invisible pressure. Excessive consideration of married life in the face of marriage is manifested in fear and avoidance of marriage, which many people delay marriage and even prefer celibacy rather than "suffering.".
Here, we want to remind people who are afraid of getting married not to forget the old saying: Marriage is a pair of shoes, and only you know if it fits. "If you refuse to wear shoes, you may have avoided rubbing blood bubbles because the shoes don't fit, but you may have stepped on a nail because of walking barefoot. By then, you may realize that marriage is actually a protection for love.". A happy marriage is the best way to treat "marriage phobia".
