Post Date December, 02 2023
Marriage is not just a matter for one person, everything is easy to solve for one person, but it is not so easy to solve for two people, and it is more complex and cumbersome than for one person. Specifically, apart from principled issues, it's just some trivial matters with larger mung beans.
If you don't want a trivial matter to cause a breakdown in your relationship or family, you can try to "play dumb". But one thing everyone should be clear about is that pretending to be silly is not about swallowing your breath, it is about changing your perspective and thinking style, and blurring out some small things in life. In certain situations, remember to pretend to be foolish as it may add to your feminine charm. A woman who pretends to be foolish is actually a realm that is done by wise people. The seductive smile that knows everything but doesn't break is the most captivating thing for men.
A wise woman will act foolish
Compared to men, they are naturally more sensitive, which leads to women becoming less confident and more sensitive after marriage due to various reasons such as having children and gaining weight. They often suspect that their husbands are like this or that, and eventually become a "resentful woman" for men to run away from. No man likes a resentful woman, they prefer a wise woman who knows how to "act silly" at the right time. Women's tolerance can make men feel secure, and sometimes giving in is for better defense. The reason why her marriage has come to the brink is because she does not know how to adapt and adjust her mindset appropriately. A wise woman is not like an orange that is squeezed dry and discarded. She should be like a vibrant tree, with spring flowers and autumn fruits, branches and leaves, each season having its unique beauty.
A good woman can act silly
Being a woman is not simply a problem that can be solved by marrying a man, let alone being a good woman. So, being a woman is difficult, and being a good woman is even more difficult. Since Pangu opened the world, there has been no woman who does not want to be a good woman, but some women have not become good women or even bad women simply because they pretend to be foolish without understanding.
Cute women can act silly
No one would dislike a cute woman, but being cute requires a wise and intelligent mind as the backing. Simple silly women should not say that men do not like them. Even women won't like it. Women are inherently foolish, but their relationships with men are always a bit intricate. Men seem to dislike smart women, even if they have to say it out of their mouths, they feel very uneasy in their hearts. The tricks of a man cannot withstand the scrutiny of a wise eye.
Experts suggest that it is not difficult to be foolish to fake or fake, but rather to "pretend". This degree is difficult to grasp, and once it passes or leaks, it can make a woman appear pretentious. So playing dumb is a skill. A woman who can pretend to be foolish can make fewer enemies and more friends in her career. A woman who can pretend to be foolish can be less troublesome and more happy in love. A woman who can pretend to be foolish can be less awkward and more friendly in society. A woman who can pretend to be foolish can be less friction and more harmonious in front of her mother-in-law.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
