Sexual Health
Oral: The nanny is pregnant with her husband's child and wants to be my daughter-in-law
After becoming Ms. Qi's daughter-in-law, Ah Xiang's true face was officially exposed. She became like a "queen" at home, bossing around and always hitting ladies, her two sons, and even Lao Zhang. There was almost no peaceful day at home.
A college nanny has arrived at home
Ms. Qi and her husband Lao Zhang got married in their hometown of Jiangxi. Shortly after marriage, Ms. Qi gave birth to a son. Unfortunately, shortly after, her son was diagnosed with intellectual disability. In 1996, the couple came to Shenzhen to work hard, and after several years of hard work, they finally stood firm. In 2001 and 2003, they bought two houses of over 100 square meters each on mortgage in Nanshan and Bao'an. In 2001, their youngest son was born, and since then, Ms. Qi has resigned from her job to take care of her children at home.
In 2006, the two of them purchased two single apartments in Merlin. Due to the high pressure of housing supply, Ms. Qi decided to return to work to share the pressure with her husband. The two discussed and decided to hire a nanny to take care of the child. However, Lao Zhang was not satisfied with the nanny that Ms. Qi had invited back. In less than a year, the family had already changed several nannies.
In June 2008, after resigning from his recent job as a nanny, Lao Zhang went to the job market to hire a Hunan girl named Ah Xiang as a nanny. As soon as she entered the house, I felt a bit abnormal. She said she was a college graduate. I think, why do college graduates come to our house to work as nannies? "Ah Xiang explained that her previous company went bankrupt due to the impact of the SARS pandemic, and now the economy is relatively sluggish and it is not easy to find a job, so she came to apply for a job as a nanny. She only has one requirement, which is to say to the public that she is a governess rather than a nanny.
Ms. Qi privately discussed with Lao Zhang and believed that such a person could not be trusted as a nanny and could not last for a long time. She suggested finding another one. But Lao Zhang insists that not only can Ah Xiang do household chores, but he can also serve as a tutor for his younger son, which is a win-win choice. Ms. Qi couldn't resist her husband and ultimately kept Ah Xiang.
The nanny got into the owner's bed
To Ms. Qi's surprise, Ah Xiang stayed at home with peace of mind and worked diligently. It wasn't until one day that her neighbor's words made her understand Ah Xiang's true purpose as a nanny at home. One day, as soon as I left, my neighbor mysteriously grabbed me and said to me, 'There must be something wrong with your husband and the nanny. You need to be careful.'
Ms. Qi initially didn't believe it, but she still had an extra perspective. She did realize that the words and actions between the two were not like the relationship between an employer and a nanny. Finally, one day, Ms. Qi suddenly "killed" her while on the way to work and caught the two of them in bed.
Ah Xiang saw the matter exposed and just kept crying. She begged Ms. Qi not to drive her away, saying that such a thing would definitely not happen again in the future. Ms. Qi asked her to leave immediately, and she said, "If you drive me away, I'll sue your husband for raping me and send him to prison." Seeing that Ms. Qi remained unmoved, she said she wanted to jump off the building. Ms. Qi said, "I can provide you with financial compensation. Can you give me a price?" To her surprise, Ah Xiang didn't want Qi to provide financial compensation and only hoped to continue working as a nanny here. Ms. Qi was very strange and said, "What are you trying to do with us? Our houses are all mortgaged and we don't have any money at all
In the end, Ms. Qi still drove Ah Xiang out of her house. However, for her husband who made a mistake, she did not take any measures. In her opinion, the two have been married for so many years, and the husband has always been very concerned about his family. As long as this "fox spirit" leaves, the husband will definitely be able to recover.
The third party becomes the daughter-in-law
Less than a month later, Ms. Qi unexpectedly received a phone call from Ah Xiang. She asked, "Auntie, have you found a nanny in your family? If not, I'll come back and do it again
Ms. Qi politely refused her, and surprisingly, within two days, Ah Xiang came to her door and said she was already pregnant. I thought it was both funny and angry at the time. I asked her what she really wanted and if she wanted me to divorce, "Ah Xiang's answer surprised her. Ah Xiang said, "I want to have a child, but I don't have the heart to destroy your family either. Why don't I marry your son? Anyway, the bones and flesh born from your family are also yours
Ms. Qi fully understands what Ah Xiang's proposal means. Due to intellectual disability, the eldest son is only under 10 years old in intelligence, so he will definitely not be able to find a girlfriend, let alone get married. Ah Xiang actually wants to marry the eldest son to get close to her husband. But Ah Xiang firmly denied her idea. She sincerely told Ms. Qi, "I think men nowadays are unreliable. Marrying a fool at least doesn't have to worry about him abandoning me in the future. I will definitely treat him well and take care of him when you get old in the future." Lao Zhang also joined the persuasion team, He aligned with the woman and said, "This way, my son will at least have a place to belong, and I will definitely not abandon you. I will work harder to earn money and raise the whole family
Under the dual pressure of her husband and Ah Xiang, Ms. Qi finally agreed to this somewhat absurd marriage, which she still regrets to this day. After becoming Ms. Qi's daughter-in-law, Ah Xiang's true face was officially exposed. She became like a "queen" at home, bossing around and always hitting ladies, her two sons, and even Lao Zhang. There was almost no peaceful day at home.
Don't worry about your two sons
After six months of this kind of life, Lao Zhang discussed with Ms. Qi and said that if it continued like this, life would be unbearable. In order to protect the two children, it would be better for him and Ah Xiang to move out. He once again firmly promised that he would definitely work hard to earn money to support his family and not leave them alone. Faced with such unreasonable demands, Ms. Qi unexpectedly compromised again. At that time, I really couldn't tolerate such domestic violence anymore, and my husband was very sincere. I think since I have reached this point, it's better to let them go out
Not long after the two of them moved out, Ah Xiang quietly took his eldest son's ID card and processed the divorce procedures. And Lao Zhang also started suing the court to divorce Ms. Qi. At this point, I realized that they had been planning a perfect conspiracy from her arrival as a nanny at home to marrying my son, gradually getting me involved
Ms. Qi firmly disagrees with divorce, and the court has not ruled for divorce. Not long after, Lao Zhang came to his door again to cry, saying that Ah Xiang beats him every day and threatening to kill him if he doesn't divorce. He asked Ms. Qi to let him go and agree to divorce. Faced with such a request from her once beloved husband, Ms. Qi had a feeling of wanting to cry without tears.
Ms. Qi said that she often thinks of dying now, but her two sons, one young and the other without self-care ability, look at them, She felt that she didn't have the qualification to die: "My biggest concern is my two sons. Now that I'm not in good health and don't have a job, my husband still pays some living expenses every month for the sake of my younger son. If this source of income is also cut off, I don't know what to do." As my eldest son has a household registration in another city, the civil affairs department in Shenzhen is also unable to solve his problems, including work. The eldest son walks from Nanshan to Diwang Building every day, picking up some waste along the way. He goes out at 9 am every day and only returns home at 12 pm. This way, he can only earn less than 100 yuan per month. My youngest son is in the third grade of elementary school, with good grades and a lot of sense. When his peers were still playing coquettish in his parents' arms, he had already learned to stir fry and cook.
I have lost confidence in Lao Zhang, but I won't divorce either. I just won't let them be so satisfied. My only wish now is for someone kind to find a job for my eldest son, so that he can support himself, and then I will die without regret, "Ms. Qi told reporters.