Post Date December, 03 2023
My boyfriend was introduced by a friend and was two years older than me. He came from a farming family and his father died early. However, he owned two apartments at the age of 29 based on his own abilities. He started a company with a friend and wrote good articles. His talent and ability attracted me very much. He doesn't smoke, drink, go to bars, go home after work to fight landlords or email clients, and never go out to play.
When I met him, another blind date was running after me. After meeting, he only sent me a message every day, and on the third day, he called me, neither hot nor cold. I agreed to the other one, and told him that I had a boyfriend, so I wouldn't contact him again in the future. Who knows, he immediately seemed to have changed a person and came to me by taxi from another city. "I asked two roommates to accompany me. He knelt on one knee in front of everyone, kneeling for over an hour on a cold winter night. If I didn't agree, I wouldn't get up.". I had to promise him to get up first. The next day, he waited all day in the community, then took me to see his new house and handed me all his property certificate, passbook, and bank card.
Everyone envies me for meeting such a "diamond king and fifth", and I thought he would treat me well, but that's not the case.
"Once in the early morning, he wanted to kiss me. Because he didn't brush his teeth, I pushed him aside, and he hysterically smashed the razor I gave him to pieces.". Early in the morning before receiving the certificate, he insisted that I ask for leave from my boss and not let me go to work. He said he wanted to see whether his work was important or his work was important. On the day of obtaining the certificate, my mother said that we were emotionally unstable and advised not to obtain the certificate for the time being. He tore up his account book like crazy.
"Once I had a fight, he wouldn't let me sleep, and he kept talking and making a lot of noise, regardless of whether I went to work the next day or not.".
Once, he accidentally found a photo of me and my ex boyfriend in my old wallet. As a result, he kept me awake at two or three o'clock for a whole week. Every time I make a phone call, he grabs it and answers it first. Every day, he flips through my phone, checks my inbox and inbox, and chases me to ask for a QQ password. And I never flip through his phone without asking for his password.
He relies heavily on me in his life, and I have to hold him every night to fall asleep. "I do all the housework, but he says, 'You're the most expensive nanny!' He hates me taking my friends too seriously, and even when I answer my girlfriend's phone for an hour, I say, 'You're being used by friends like a living treasure. They only come to you for business, and they never come to you for anything!' Every time I get together with a friend, I have to watch his face when I come home.". If I take him to a party, he will always have a downcast face, as if he despises my friend. "I went out a bit late in the morning, and he would curse, 'You go to hell!' I went to the mall to buy something, but he didn't want to go in, so he bought ice cream outside and waited for me.". "I came out in about half an hour, and as soon as I came out, he smashed the ice cream on my leg.". He will hand over all his income to me, but he needs to add, "My monthly income is equivalent to your annual income!" Once, when I was on a business trip and took a whole day's ride home, he insisted on me cooking no matter how tired I was. He doesn't even know what respect is! Every time I ran away from home, he would call all my family and friends to find me back, but within a few days he would repeat the same trick.
Just over half a year ago, I was almost tortured crazy by him. The friends around me don't support me in breaking up because I'm 27 years old, and it's already good to find such a condition at this age. Finding another one may not be without shortcomings. Moreover, he doesn't smoke, drink, gamble, whore, or play, and is emotionally focused on his career. The other faction advised me to break up, saying that life is so long, and being tortured by his spirit every day, no matter how abundant the material wealth, there will be no happy days. What should I do?
The editor has something to say:
"A capable and talented" diamond king and fifth "with two suites, his own company, and just met you once, sent a few text messages, and kneeled crazily in front of you, presenting his property certificate and passbook with both hands.". You say love is maddening, and there must be some foundation for the generation of love. You should say love at first sight. He didn't do it the first time I met him. It was only when I heard that you promised someone else that I went crazy. I think that when ordinary people encounter such abnormal things, they always have to question: Do I really have such a great charm? Can pie really fall from the sky?
Facts have proven that pie doesn't fall from the sky. "The personality of Mr. Diamond Wang Laowu is obviously flawed, and it is not too much to say that he has a mental illness.".
Sure, your boyfriend is very dedicated to you, offering both his real estate certificate, passbook, and salary, but what is his attitude towards you? If you work overtime, he thinks it will affect his love and career; He checks your phone, asks for your QQ password, and does not allow you to have any private space; When you get along with a friend, he is not happy; No matter how tired you work, he always asks you to do housework and take care of his life; "If you don't go along with him a bit, he'll get hysterical at any time.". Why is that? Obviously, in his mind, your relationship is: "I bought you with money, so all your body, mind, and all your time must belong to me.". As he himself said, you are "the most expensive nanny", not an equal and free lover.
Indeed, diamonds are radiant and dazzling, but their beauty only makes sense if you have the basic conditions for survival. If you are in a desert without any water or food, even if you hold a whole bag of diamonds, there is only one way to die of hunger and thirst. What is the difference between a life without basic love and respect and a barren desert?
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
