Teachers have taught us to be tolerant of people since childhood. How can we be tolerant? Tolerance is forgiveness for oneself. When you use a generous attitude and attitude to tolerate the mistakes made by others, in fact, it is you who really benefit. If you struggle with yourself for the fault of others, you will be punished yourself. In the life of husband and wife, the wife should be more tolerant, at least in most families, the wife is the dominant, and the husband is the "submitter". Therefore, if the wife does not understand tolerance, the "oppressed" husband will certainly resist, and the marriage will not be happy.
Tolerance turns negative emotions into nothing
The great Hugo once said: tolerance is like cool nectar, which irrigates the dry heart, tolerance is like a warm fireplace, which warms the cold and numb heart, tolerance is like an inexhaustible torch, which ignites the fire to be extinguished under the iceberg, tolerance is like a magic flute, which wakes the people sleeping in the dark. Yes, this is the power of tolerance. Couple life will fade with time, and conflicts will emerge in endlessly. At this moment, only tolerance can eliminate these contradictions, and only it can make marriage continue to be successful.
Any negative emotion will vanish in the face of tolerance, just as the millennium ice will melt in an instant when it meets the sun that scorches everything. Smart wives are always able to tolerate their husbands at the right time. For example, they never expose their husbands' white lies in public. They will leave enough face for their husbands when they go out. They will also pretend not to know when their husbands do something wrong once in a while. This is a tolerant wife. She knows how to protect her man with tolerance.>> Uncover the seven laws of love between husband and wife
A wife who learns to be tolerant is the wisest
Marriage can't be as perfect as we think. Don't hold on to everything, even trivial matters. Just grasp the general direction of marriage and don't deviate from the moral route. When appropriate, give men a little freedom, a little space, and keep a tolerant heart, which will make your marriage stronger and love will go further.
When a woman learns to be tolerant, she will have amazing immunity, and any negative words are almost out of luck with her. Their life, marriage and feelings are easy to be satisfied and happy. Happiness has become the only pronoun to describe them.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)