Post Date December, 03 2023
With the development of society, the pressure on men's lives is increasing, and their living standards are generally improving, resulting in many leftover men and women, especially some after the 1970s and 1980s. Why are they still unmarried? Let's take a look at the reasons why 30 men are unmarried.
1. There is too much pressure in life.
In modern society, the main pressure comes not only from work but also from life. Facing the challenges of marriage, it is not as simple as making friends. It is necessary to solve a series of practical problems such as houses and cars, and these pressures of life can make men choose to give up marriage.
2. There is not enough funds.
In addition to houses and cars, it is more important to have enough money to live. From the moment you are about to say goodbye to being single, you need to spend money to cultivate relationships. The preparation work between marriage is basically accompanied by money, and the life after marriage is naturally impossible without enough money.
3. I've been picking and choosing for a while.
Perhaps many post 70s men have already talked about many girlfriends, including those who cohabit, and when faced with the sensitive word marriage, they always have the heart to quickly bury themselves. They start to nitpick, picking one after another, and in the end, what they like is not suitable for others, and what others like is not like.
4. For the so-called study and career.
"I thought I had no end in learning and had been in a learning state all the time. As a result, I studied for an undergraduate degree in a junior college, and then studied for graduate school. After finishing graduate school, I still wanted to study for a doctoral degree. I was already in my 30s, and just started working, I was even more reluctant to mention getting married. In order to have more choices in the future, I have been in a waiting state.".
5. A celibate.
Obviously, they don't want to get married, like celibacy, like freedom, don't like being constrained by others, and don't need the shackles of life. Especially married men, of course, are not as free as unmarried men, so the majority of male celibates after the 1970s are relatively selfish.
6. A wait-and-see player.
Cohabitation can be done, but it is absolutely not necessary to take marital issues into consideration, even for those who have cohabited for a long time. Some people who have cohabited for many years are unwilling to mention marriage. If their girlfriend suggests it, they will find a reasonable and grandiose reason for her to wait. This is a typical wait-and-see type of player for post 70s men. We hold the bowl while still looking at the pot.
7. Emotions have been severely hit.
Most post 70s men are more rational about marriage issues and also more obedient to their parents' opinions. After all, men in that era had a sense of obedience to the overall situation in their bones, which often hurt them because of obedience to the overall situation. After a serious emotional blow, they no longer have the confidence to love.
8. Fear of responsibility.
"This post 70s man has his own set of tricks, has a clear target for attack, but has not yet succeeded. Therefore, let's wait and say again. If successful, we can change the target for attack. If unsuccessful, we can casually find a woman in front of us, and we are seriously afraid of taking responsibility and stealing opportunities.".
9. There is no woman who truly loves.
It's easy to like a woman, but this kind of love can never reach the point of love, just like it, so you can only choose to talk, chat, cohabit for a period of time and then talk about whether you can get married, and the ultimate result is to choose to be single. This post 70s man is inherently fragile and generally does not believe in true love.
The reason why men haven't married in their 30s is explained above. In fact, it is partly due to external material constraints on men, and also due to their own psychological effects. Therefore, it is normal for men to unmarri in their 30s. As long as they are attractive, it is the same as marrying after 30s.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
