Post Date April, 15 2023
Hello, I hope I can get your help as soon as possible, because at the moment, I am already heartbroken and desperate! My experience was very bumpy. When I was two years old, my father died in a car accident. However, my mother, because she was beautiful and virtuous, remarried again. At the age of 34, she married a man 10 years younger than her. After his mother remarried, his father tried hard to get into the civil service in order to give his mother a happy life. Over the years, our family has enjoyed a happy life.
I am 26 years old and my stepfather is 48 years old. He treats me as well as his own son. Half a year ago, my mother died of illness. He and I have been immersed in pain. He said that he would never love another woman again, and his only wish was to take care of me. In order to get rid of my pain, my father took out his savings and let me travel. After traveling back, I talked about a girlfriend, 25 years old. When we met, her smile was very kind. Her beauty and talent attracted me deeply. In this way, I expressed my heart to her and hoped to marry her and have children. With this girl, my life was slowly on the right track, and I was no longer sad, and I wanted to find a stable job.
Later, I took my girlfriend to see my stepfather, who also liked her very much. I always call her to invite her to dinner at home, and often take me to give her some small gifts. At first, I felt that my stepfather was trying to please my girlfriend. At that time, I was very grateful to my stepfather. However, once, I was surprised to find that my stepfather and my girlfriend were strolling in the park together. Their leisurely mood made me very angry after watching it! Even the stepfather looked at her very special. Later, my relationship with my stepfather became more and more rigid. I asked my girlfriend, did my stepfather like you? My girlfriend said, I love you. You should cherish me. She is too perfect. She is a beautiful girl that everyone loves. Not only that, but also caring. For this reason, I began to be nervous all day! However, it wasn't long before my worry was confirmed. One night, my stepfather didn't go home! I called my girlfriend and her phone was turned off all the time. My heart was very flustered. The next day, when my stepfather came home, he said to me, my son, my father will give you a house, and you should take care of yourself in the future! I didn't understand after listening.
Soon after, I received the news that my girlfriend and I broke up. I asked her why she broke up with me? She said that she no longer belongs to me, but she wanted me to be happy. I asked her: Who do you like? She told me for a long time that I like your father. I think he is mature, stable, not only has a career, but also understands romance. Your father likes me too. We like each other. Although there is a gap in our age, we communicate well. If you communicate well, you don't care about anything.
I went home and had a big fight with my stepfather. I was disgusted with him. The stepfather said, "I didn't think that I was really moved to him. I hope you would bless us!" He stole my girlfriend, and I suddenly broke out. On the one hand, I missed my mother who died, and on the other hand, I regretted that I didn't watch her, and let others steal her. What's more hateful is that the person who stole my girlfriend is still my own stepfather. I have moved out of my home and have no contact with my stepfather. However, the pain in my heart cannot be spoken of!
For two months, I hid in the rented house, stayed indoors, shut down the phone and stopped all plans. Today, I really want to feel the feeling of the sun, so I walked out with a light and fluttering step. Looking at the beautiful scenery outside, the trees turned green and the flowers were blooming. Only my heart was no longer warm. I walked and thought about the past, and my eyes were wet. How should I get out of this pain? I began to question my feelings and even dared not fall in love. What should I do? I hope you can help me, let me quickly get out of this dark inner world, let me no longer live on
[Reply]:
The stepfather must not be your biological father, and has no blood relationship with you. So at the critical moment, he lost his mind when he was seduced by a beautiful woman, chose "whatever means", gave up ethics and morality, and fought with you. In this fight between father and son for a beautiful woman, your competitive strength is obviously inferior to your stepfather.
Now that this is the case, since your girlfriend has chosen your stepfather in a desperate way, it means that the relationship between you has ended. You have to face it bravely. What's the pain. You should be glad that you recognized the faces of two "relatives" in a flash. I suggest you respect your girlfriend's choice and help them! Besides, the stepfather is kind to you, and the right is to repay him! More importantly, such women are not worth fighting for, are they?
Don't you know that a woman is a disaster? If two tigers fight each other, one will be hurt. In the end, one side will fail. Is it really worth it for a woman without principles? Try to put it down. If it's really uncomfortable, talk with your good friends more. Don't stay at home alone. Time is fleeting. Don't waste your time for it. Cherish your life now. There will be better scenery ahead if you are confident enough.
