Post Date December, 03 2023
The most embarrassing thing in life is the man she loves, and I also love him. How many times have I felt that the heavens are playing tricks on people. Because there are so many men in the world, why do my best friend and I all fall in love with one of them? Is it about valuing color over friends or valuing friends over color? This makes me extremely entangled, I really don't understand why life always has to do such multiple choice questions to give up on them, I am not willing to. Grasping him, how can I face my best friend? I really don't know if I should dig a corner? In the past two years, we have encountered many similar problems. What should we do to achieve the best of both worlds?
First of all, I need to be honest with my best friend about this matter
Because there are often only two conflicts between women: money and men. And both of these contradictions directly test your relationship with your best friend. More importantly, once it comes to a man, your relationship and trust may evaporate. So, instead of being like this, it's better to face this matter honestly. You can 'defeat the enemy without fighting'. First, find your best friend and confess, you need to compete fairly with this man. But why do you say that? Because whether you confess or not, there will always be a layer of inexplicable embarrassment between you in the future. Instead of doing this, it's better to put the words ahead. Years from now, when she remembers, she will definitely understand your psychology at this moment. Some injuries are not intentional or intentional.
Secondly, if you love this man, you should respect his choices even more
If you love this man, don't play too many tricks and tricks. Because on the one hand, it's your best friend, and on the other hand, it's your man. You're open and straightforward, because love is about whether it's suitable or not. Whether it's your best friend or you, a man must have a scale in his heart. If a man loves your best friend, he won't love you again. If a man loves you, how can he possibly love his best friend? If this man really has two legs, it's not worth loving like this. So, whether a man chooses you or his best friend, it's up to the man to handle. If he loves you, he will find a way to fully explain this matter.
Once again, if you like him, cherish the joy of being with him
Life is too short, it's not by chance that anyone knows anyone. Perhaps it was fate destined in a previous life. Since you like him, you need to find ways to cherish the joy of being with him. Perhaps in the future you won't have the opportunity to get together, so treat every meeting as an opportunity to cherish each other. Do something within your power to leave the other person with some heartwarming emotions. Perhaps the matter may be small, but the impression is long-lasting. When you occupy the other party's spiritual position, then you have successfully gained their love. Digging for the wall doesn't require you to focus too much on clever tricks, what you need is that you treat the other person with sincerity. I think the most wonderful thing in interpersonal relationships is to be sincere towards each other.
When encountering some things in life, don't feel depressed, because things that are even more depressing than you imagine may happen again. Therefore, since this situation has occurred, respect your heart, work hard, and let nature take its course. It's yours that no one else can take away. Don't force yourself even if it's not yours, to avoid losing love and friendship.
