Post Date December, 02 2023
I originally thought this matter couldn't be delayed, after all, I have a family and she will still get married in the future. Although I like her now, it's impossible for me to explain anything to her at the moment.
I confessed to my wife that I had a crush on another woman. We talked all night, but I didn't want to confess and wanted to live like this, but things were not what I imagined or could control. She hoped that I could be with her, even if it was sneaky. She wouldn't affect my family and didn't need any promises from me. I refused because I felt unfair to her and couldn't give her a result. It would hurt both my wife and children. I didn't expect her to threaten me with suicide. She's already in the hospital, and I've been taking care of her for the past few days. It's been like a century, so long!
My wife said she can forgive me this time because she loves me very much, has children, and this family. She gave me time to handle this matter well. If I feel that she has done something wrong in the future, she will try her best to correct it and hope to live a happy life with me and my daughter. This is a result I didn't expect, there was no mention of divorce or a big argument. I was moved. If I were her, I wouldn't be able to do it.
My lover is currently in the hospital, what can I say? She said that when she finds the person she loves again, she will disappear from my sight. During this time, just to see me, have some time to be with her, and care about her is enough. I looked at her haggard face, her sad tears, leaving me speechless and indescribable in my heart.
The tolerance and magnanimity towards the wife and the responsibility towards the family. Faced with her love, my heart wandered and I started to decide on a breakup. Now it's blurry, what should I do? I am really at a loss.
Ms. Cheng:
You actually have an answer in your heart, after all, you made up your mind to break up with her from the beginning, didn't you?
The love of a wife is selfless, while the love of a lover is selfish. My wife is for you and this family, and my lover is only for herself.
My wife married you to spend a lifetime with you, regardless of difficulties or difficulties, to establish a complete family. However, the lover only considers his own feelings, even disregards his own body, and uses the most shameful way to retain you, leaving you in a dilemma and unable to refuse.
No good girl is willing to be a mistress, and a girl with the correct values knows how to choose, even if she loves again. Find your lover's parents, family, or other relatives and friends to take care of her and sincerely apologize. This relationship has been wrong from the beginning, and we cannot continue to make mistakes.
Treat your wife well, she truly loves you and this family.
