We have known each other for 5 years and both have families. We are very happy together, without any problems or conflicts. Then, as I came to her city and realized with her husband that we knew, we would have conflicts over her personal issues from that day on. Now that we have our own son, she repeatedly wants to live with me and her husband, and she doesn't want to give up on her current family, Do you still want to maintain this relationship with me? The three of us have talked many times without any results, but in the end, we said we were separated, but we couldn't do it. Normally, we met in just one day. Could you please ask the teacher to see what I should do?
She told me that she lives with her husband, but her heart is with me. She doesn't want to give up on her current home. She asked me to wait for her, saying that she can't live with her anymore and then live with me. She told me that we can never be separated, and we have always maintained a married life. I would like to ask the teacher to give me direction. Thank you, teacher.
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Hello, extramarital affairs are like a magical cube, always full of magical power, tempting everyone who wants to cheat. You all have families, but outside of them, you yearn for and enjoy another kind of family. What is it for? Is it because we really feel each other, or is it because being together like this is exciting enough, or is it because we can't get more and more together.
If you truly love each other and fall in love, why is she still holding onto an existing marriage, for the sake of children, or for a sense of guilt? You are really brave enough to have children together outside of marriage; You guys are really amazing, three people sitting together talking, including her husband, right?
And do you have any confession to your wife? You are maintaining a married life without any reason. If you ask for legal protection, your current behavior has already violated the law, which is a crime of bigamy.
If you want to have a result, there is no other way, it is to take responsibility for each other, shoulder responsibility, be responsible for each other to the end, and give both families an explanation. Otherwise, there will be no good result. After all, those stolen emotions can't be openly exposed to the sun, and the mutual love that thrives crazily in dark corners makes people feel nauseous. I hope you can take it easy.