I'm always suspicious now, or something really happened. Please help me, what should I do? I have been quarrelling with my husband for a year, and I suspect that he has a woman outside. He has a bad temper and has mentioned divorce to me. Now we seem to have no relationship with each other. He doesn't care about anything now, even buying underwear.
We have been married for 15 years, and now he plays Wechat with that woman very hot. I have peeked at his mobile phone twice. There are two women, and the last one is divorced. Every day he comes home at more than 12 o'clock outside, which has never been before.
In the past two months, I haven't come home for one night twice. He never doesn't come home at night. I also want to divorce. I have a son who is 15 years old. I have few friends. I don't know what to do now? We don't say a word a day. Now we are not even ordinary friends.
1. It is terrible that there is no communication between husband and wife. Your husband just wants to communicate with you. It doesn't matter if you don't love words or words. You can be a good listener for him. I'm afraid he thinks you often ignore his existence. You know, no one likes to live with a cold person. People need to communicate with each other. Only in this way can we enhance our feelings.
2. In addition, women should learn to be a gentle and clever animal and not lose their temper easily. Are we a princess or a queen at home? No, it's not necessary to let your temper be so big. Couples don't owe anyone when they are together. A little gentleness and warmth will make men like you. That's why this man is tired of going home. Whether he is tired of you first and doesn't love to go home, or he may have an affair outside and won't go home, you need to find out.
3. If you don't want to put your marriage into a more serious situation, you should take the initiative to repair the relationship between husband and wife as soon as possible, improve your own shortcomings, correct the existing problems, and manage your marriage with your heart. If you work hard, you won't get the desired results.