Post Date April, 15 2023
[Question]
It's hard for me to imagine myself. When I really met Xiao San, we didn't scold or fight each other, but the fact is, because both women were very anxious and didn't have the time to see each other as mortal enemies, because the culprit who made us mortal enemies disappeared from our lives out of thin air!
I couldn't reach my husband since last Friday night. Before that, I received his last text message: 'Let me be alone.'. I thought he was lying to me, but in fact, he went to Xiao San's place and I asked him to make a decision. I chose between Xiao San and me, and I am also waiting for his decision. But after waiting for two days, he had no news at all. He called, sent messages, and received no response. Even if he hadn't returned all night before, he wouldn't have had no news like this, which made me a bit uneasy. Then yesterday afternoon, I received a call from an unfamiliar number. I thought it was my husband, but it was a woman's voice. I immediately asked, 'Did you ask xxx (husband's name) not to answer my phone?'? It's actually a junior, and! She can't reach her husband anymore!! I don't know where this man went, we're all in a hurry. Xiao San is even more fragile than me, constantly shedding tears.
Today, neither she nor I went to work. The two of us ran to places where he might have gone and called our familiar friends, but there was no news about his whereabouts. Where will he go?! Why are you missing?! What should we do now!
Answer
You are a bit confused, no matter how worried about his safety, you should not stand on the same front as a third party. The situation has exceeded your ability to respond independently. Please contact us promptly to assist you.
If there has been no news from him for three or four days, it is necessary to inform his parents and close relatives about this matter. You can contact his family and ask him to return to his residence, telling her that if there is any news from his husband, you will pass it on to her - it is not advisable to have direct hostility with him at this time, but it is also inconvenient for his family to see him. The matter is already very difficult, and being with him will only make the situation more complicated.
Furthermore, from the third person's reaction, it can be seen that she, like you, loves this man. It is highly likely that he cannot provide a reasonable explanation to the two women who deeply love him, and neither side can provide satisfactory answers. Therefore, he chose to avoid it altogether. During the search for him, you can clarify your thoughts and convince him that he can no longer make a decision and has just fled. Then, be firm and decide whether to continue or separate. You can make this decision and tell him your decision when you find him. This decision is destined to completely harm one person, but dragging it on will cause pain for all three. Don't pity the wrong emotions, but also face your own problems. How to choose, first think clearly.
