My husband is away on business, and my mother-in-law runs to my house every two days. I am mad to learn the truth unintentionally

In recent years, my husband's company has been busy with new projects. He often travels to other places, even on weekends. It is very hard. I am pregnant again. I have a baby at home. My mother-in-law often comes to take care of me and cook delicious food for me. I am very moved. After the baby was born, I was more busy, and my husband was still running around, unable to find anyone else. As long as my husband is on business, my mother-in-law runs very hard. I'm worried that she can't bear it. I often advise her to pay attention to her health. I can take care of it myself.

She said yes, but still ran to me. In the long run, I am a little tired, especially at night. After the child goes to bed, I really want to take a hot bath and have an early rest. The old man has little sleep, and his mother-in-law stays in the living room watching TV. She doesn't want to go back until nine o'clock. I can't say let her go back, or she will think I will drive her home; I can't go to bed again. It's not good to leave her alone. In short, I will stay with her until she returns. It's OK once and twice. For a long time, I'm really tired.

That night, I couldn't hold on. I was too tired and sleepy. I'm sorry to say good night to my mother-in-law and went to bed. I drank a lot of water at night. I got up and went to the bathroom. The TV was still "wow" in the living room. My mother-in-law hasn't left yet. I took a look at it for a while. It's already ten o'clock. I wanted to let her stay too late. Just when I wanted to call her, I heard her voice on the phone from the living room: "Son, your daughter-in-law is very strict. She hasn't provoked men. You can rest assured to work outside.". I was shocked. What did she mean by that?

I shouted "Mom", and she was frightened after hearing it. She hung up quickly and responded with a smile. I asked her to explain what she had just said, but she just didn't say it. I got angry and asked her if she was spying on me. I was afraid that my husband was not at home, so I looked for a man. After being told by me, she couldn't continue to hide it and told the truth: her former daughter-in-law, the ex-wife of her husband, broke up during her husband's business trip, and he divorced decisively. Therefore, when he was on business trip, he always let his mother-in-law watch me in case I cheated too.

I was mad. He didn't want to tell the truth about his divorce from his ex-wife. He was afraid that my pregnant mother-in-law often came to see me at home. I dialed my husband's phone and asked him to let his mother-in-law monitor me, whether he respected me or not, and didn't want to divorce. My mother-in-law is silly and has always advised me not to be angry. I ignored her and went back to bed. I'm really angry. My family has no sense of trust. How can I continue to live? I thought our relationship was true, but now it seems that I'm just being sentimental. So disappointed

Reply from the consultant:

Hello. Once bitten, twice shy. The infidelity of your ex-wife has cast a shadow on your husband's heart. He should not let your mother-in-law supervise you, which is a sign of distrust and disrespect. If the husband and wife have problems, they can communicate privately. This way is really unacceptable. I suggest you communicate well, especially your husband. Don't neglect the importance of home for work. Marriage is hard won and needs to be managed. I wish you happiness.