I still remember that Tang Fei (alias) lied for the first time under a big tree. He asked me nervously, did you feel that his lips were a little cold?
I chuckled, but I didn't feel it. He pressed forward at the speed of chasing the wind and the current, and it took him a long time to relax and say, "I'll give you warm, not cold.". I laughed at him as a bad man while holding back my heart. He was serious and said to my body, "I am a great citizen. This is my first kiss. It's a real first kiss.".
The next day, I knew he was lying. A girl who had been better than two years before suddenly came to him and asked him why he was so cruel and didn't love her. That day, he sat opposite me and gulped down white rice. He pointed to me sitting opposite and embarrassed to introduce her that this is my girlfriend. Hands trembled, and the smile on his face was like the October wind constantly twitching.
He nervously explained to me for fear that I would have any doubts or leave him. College love, so simple, has a period of blooming rose buds, not to be surprised. In his nervousness, I suddenly understood that some lies exist because of love and care. They are born of love.
Immediately after we graduated, I went to Guangdong because of the arrangement of my family, but he stayed at school for postgraduate examination because of the arrangement of his family. We are reluctant to part with each other, but we also promise to keep in touch with each other, not to marry each other, not to marry each other. In a flash, it was more than a year. Like the dim and irrelevant underground situation, we are always in the distant other side, telling each other's missing, and exchanging telephone calls in the middle of the night. When family members ask us if we have an object, we always say no. For young love, parents have given us too many evaluation criteria, and we are afraid that the secular world will make us separate.
After he finished his postgraduate entrance examination, we told our parents about our feelings. Everything was much easier than expected, and the family was not opposed. We want to get married first and then start a career. After discussing with the parents, they also readily agreed. Three months later, we became married.
On the wedding night, he suddenly asked me nervously, are you cold. I shook my head. The air conditioning effect was very good. It was not cold at all. He suddenly curled up in my arms to learn women to whine, but it was cold. Then he turned over to me. I'm so stressed that I can't breathe, and I'm like a bitch who can't bite her teeth. That's enough. Go against the weather, come down! He was proud to cheat, while he was trembling to untie my belt. Seeing that he should not, I stretched out my hands and crunched him. He suddenly slid down like a fish and rolled on the bed.
Seeing that he couldn't breathe, I released my hand. He gasped and said, "My aunt, you are going to murder your husband.". In such happiness, unconsciously, his breath gradually came closer. After the cloud and rain, he saw the plum blossom on the bed, kissed me and said, "Wife, did it just hurt?". I shook my head and tears of happiness welled up in my eyes. I finally became his wife.
Before falling asleep, he discussed with me why women hurt for the first time, but men don't. He said in my ear, this is my first time. It's very beautiful and it doesn't hurt at all. I laughed at him as a fool and fell asleep laughing.
However, within two weeks after my wedding, I began to find that he had lied to me again. His skill in bed was like a battle-hardened soldier. There was a slight doubt whether to expose him. But when I saw him warming my hands, when I saw him doing supper for me, and when I saw him always pulling me to the park for a walk for fear of being bored, I chose silence. To uncover lies is to get better trust and love? But now that I have all these things, I don't need to ask about his past.
A happy marriage needs to be managed. Learning to be a silly woman, less fussy and more confused is one of the best ways. In the face of those white lies, why don't you try to believe him and make him behave clean and honest.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)