Teller: Fangzi, female, 30
It's not easy for my husband and I to get together. Although we have been in love for so many years before we got married, maybe it's because my husband is afraid that he can't marry home at last, so he hasn't touched me, which makes me believe that he really loves me and is a really responsible man.
After marriage, I got along well with her parents and family. He and I participated in senior management in two different enterprises of the family. The wandering and fighting before marriage was also replaced by harmony and tranquility. However, the beauty is that my husband and I have no quality of sex life. Every time when it comes to the critical moment of excitement, he insists on it for less than a minute, until he finally stops.
In recent years, I have also accompanied him to see many doctors. We have been to some major professional hospitals in Shanghai and Beijing, but his situation has not improved at all. I know that he is now too burdened with thoughts, so whenever two people are together, I try not to mention that matter, as long as we can hug each other and give each other a warm. However, at the end of last year, he still proposed to divorce me. He said that since he could not give me happiness, he should let go. I immediately rejected him without hesitation, because I always believed that his illness could be cured. Even if it could not be cured, I would willingly accompany him for a lifetime. Considering that we had survived such a difficult day, why should we split up because of this small matter? In this way, he did not mention divorce for the time being under my guidance and comfort.
So it was until August this year. One night, He suddenly took my hand seriously: "Fangzi, you know I really love you. I want you even if I don't want anything in my life. Last time I proposed to divorce you because I didn't want both of us to suffer because of my incompetence. I think you can find your own happiness. But you rejected me. I know it is cruel to you, so I changed my mind later.