Post Date December, 03 2023
I have a girlfriend and we have been together for three years, but now she suddenly wants to marry his ex boyfriend. She told me that in fact, she doesn't really like her ex boyfriend, but her mother likes her ex boyfriend very much.
I am 30 years old and my girlfriend is 29 years old. Now we have been apart for a month. As far as I know, she has always had a relationship with her ex boyfriend, and she also spent a lot of money on her ex boyfriend. She also borrowed 100000 yuan from me, and now she has repaid some of it to me. She recently came to me and said that although she wants to marry her ex boyfriend now, she doesn't want to break up with me. She said that she still can't put me down in her heart and wants to be my underground lover, even if I get married, she also wants to be my lover.
After listening to my girlfriend's words, I was actually quite unhappy at the time, but I didn't explicitly refuse. I appreciate her personality and ability to handle things. I'm very confused now and don't know what to do. Do you think I should agree to her request?
reply:
1. "Now that she and her ex boyfriend are going to have a wedding, you're still calling her girlfriend, I'm afraid it's not appropriate.". For a long time, I think you should redefine who is the ex boyfriend between you and her fiance. At least, you should reflect on whether this girl stepped on two boats in love at the beginning?
2. A girl, after spending three years with you, suddenly threw herself into the arms of another man, and as she was about to enter the red carpet with another man, unexpectedly made such a request to you. Aren't you ashamed of her? Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Your girlfriend has changed her mind and wants to be her lover and future mistress. Do you think she loves you, looks up to you, or insults you?
3. Don't say you're not willing, didn't you explicitly refuse when she made such a shameless request? Perhaps, this woman still owes you some money. You both miss her body and cannot afford to part with your own money. Therefore, you simply feel that if you promise her, on the one hand, you can hope for money, and on the other hand, you can still pick up a free lover for nothing. Why not do it? For this reason, you should embrace the idea of taking advantage of yourself and willingly choose to acquiesce.
4. However, after all, people are still animals with a moral outlook on honor and disgrace. Although you cannot resist the current cheapness and temptation, you deeply understand that such practices seem a bit "shameless" in your heart. For this reason, you still have to write to me to see if others can give you a hint of encouragement. Even a little support will make you choose to betray your dignity. In fact, I know better than anyone in my mind that I'm just doing the job of being a bitch and still want to set up a memorial archway, and I'm not willing to face it. In this case, why bother pretending to be confused. "I'm sorry, since you came to ask me, I'm sure I can't support you in such a humble attempt to gain an affection. Although, for you, it seems like taking advantage, you may actually suffer a big loss in the end.".
